All things marriage

My biggest fear is marrying someone who says "Tumhein har baat personal leny ki aadat hai" when I'm just asking to be treated gently..😣

Urghhhh 🤯 Why can't I find one woman in this entire Muzz ocean? I'm officially outsourcing. 5k to anyone who can lead me to the profile—the one that actually ends in marriage. Everything else is ready, just show me the right person. 😇

I don't mind the long wait, as long as we find each other in the end.

I'm feeling very hopeless about my life. I don't know if I'll ever find a good life partner. I've been holding on with patience for so long, and I'm exhausted.

I can’t understand this app how it’s work

Allah does not delay something except for a good reason, He does not withhold something from you except for a good reason, and He does not send you a trial except for a good reason. So do not remain sad, for the Lord of all goodness brings nothing but goodness. Alhamdulillah

Modern marriage has become a job interview where one side brings a checklist and the other side brings the paycheck.

"I need a man who's 6 feet tall, muscular, emotionally available, confident, owns a house, owns a car, earns over Rs. 100,000 a month, treats me like a queen, never gets angry, always understands me."

Fair enough. Everyone is allowed to have standards.

But here's the question nobody likes to answer:

What exactly are you bringing to the table besides requirements?

Some people spend more time describing the spouse they want than the person they're becoming.

Where's the list that says:

I will be loyal.

I will be disciplined.

I will be accountable.

I will contribute to the marriage.

I will support my spouse through hard times.

I will work on my flaws instead of expecting perfection from someone else.

Standards aren't the problem. Double standards are.

If you're demanding excellence, you should be demonstrating excellence.

Marriages aren't built on shopping lists. They're built on mutual value, respect, sacrifice, and responsibility.

Stop asking, "Where are all the good men?"

Start asking, "Would a good man actually choose me?"

That's the uncomfortable conversation people keep trying to avoid.

Beauty lies not in adornment, but in actions and how one treats others

Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

I wanted to share something I've noticed on this journey of finding a serious partner and I think many of you might relate.

There are a lot of people here who seem to be just passing time chatting casually, liking profiles, but not really available for meaningful conversation. Some match, but never reply. Others go silent for days without even a simple "busy, talk later."

I believe if you're genuinely looking for marriage, communication should be clear and respectful. If you're already talking to someone seriously, you should focus on that one person at a time. You can't sail on more than one boat at the same time it's not fair to anyone involved.

It's easy to write 'honest' and 'respectful' in a bio. But for example if I ignore messages, disappear without explanation, or talk to multiple people at once my bio becomes empty words. Who I am really are is shown in how I treat others, not in what I claim to be.

We're all here for a reason. Let's be honest, responsible, and sincere with each other. If you're not ready or not interested just say so. It saves everyone's time and emotions.

May Allah guide us all to what is best and bless us with sincere, compatible partners. Ameen.

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