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A person's true identity is reflected in their good character and positive mindset.

Need some genuine advice... been searching for over a decade for a wife and nothing, using muzz and shaddi which could be my mistake to begin with. mid 30s settled own my home completely stable, living away from family too so it does get lonely. longest convo was 4 months which she then admitted to being a drug user and worse, and this was the best prospect I had as she was the only match i had in the last 14 months. Im not a 10/10 or anything close or special im just a normal (well i think so) average British pakistani and want advise on how to keep my hopes up.
Please dont give me the typical " whats written is whats written" I've heard that so many times even from my own family its starting to become meaningless. I dont mean to be passive aggressive or sound arrogant. I genuinely fell like being a Muslim means I will never fine true love and i am genuinely regretting everything. If someone has gone through something like this please give me your advice because to be honest im at a point where I might throw my faith away as I have none left anymore anyway. Brothers and sisters any advice appreciated.

This is my opinion please dont take offence

What if a person is everything you ever wanted but is not attractive to you in looks? Is it wrong to look for looks even when they have amazing character and 10/10 Deen and smart af.

Some people will be coming to this app just to talk robish

Hi everyone

Hi everyone, please I really need your advice.

I met a guy on Instagram who lives in the UK. From the beginning, he told me he was a single father of one child. According to him, he was never married the lady only got pregnant for him and she was living in Abuja with their child.

One day, I sent him a message, but he wasn’t replying at the time. While waiting, I decided to check his Instagram page. As I was scrolling through the comments, I noticed a comment from a lady. Out of curiosity, I clicked on her profile.

That was when I discovered something completely different.

From her page, I found out they were actually married for about 5–6 years. I also discovered they have two children, not one. To make matters worse, both of them are in the UK, not Nigeria as he had told me. There were still family and couple pictures on her page, including some from a few months ago.

When I confronted him, he admitted they were married but said they had already separated. He explained that she later came to the UK on her own and has been trying to reconcile with him, but he doesn’t want to get back with her. He apologized and begged me to forgive him.

Now I’m genuinely confused.

It’s not even the fact that he was married that hurts me. It’s the fact that he lied about being married, lied about having only one child, and lied about where she lives. I’m in Nigeria while both of them are in the UK. Even if they’re no longer living together, I honestly don’t know what their relationship is today.

If you were in my shoes, would you forgive him because he eventually admitted the truth, or would you walk away because the relationship started with so many lies?

I really need honest advice

I need someone that is serious in relationship and who is ready to get married. if u are not serious abeg guys should vamus

Be happy

Hello, who do you expect to win, Morocco or France?

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