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Honestly I realized, there are a lot of good people. It's hard turning down a good person simply because they aren't a good match.

There might not be an obvious issue but if you really take the time to look deeper and see the differences despite how much you want to ignore them you'll notice that you both are better off going seperate ways. Both good people, both vibing, but long term... Can it be kept up, can you keep churning out compliments and finding things to talk about? Do the similarities actually match up or are you just telling yourself "they are pretty much the same"? At this point when there isn't anything bad or even a reason to "split" how do you end it and move on?

It's hard but do you seek a constantly fun and happy marriage or a marriage that is comfortable and stable? It's been said time and time again since rasool allaha-wa-alyhewasalams time that you must look at their deen and how much ease you get from their presence. Excitement and happiness can follow afterwards but you must seek comfort in mind and soul to achieve the following.

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Quite sad that people need to define a "real man" as the money he has and what he spends it on. So basically a man's character, skills etc... dont matter. Its only the money he has and how he spend it that determines masculinity. A man that makes a lot of money with a bad personality and character is automatically a "real man" but a man with a good character and personality without a lot of money is not seen as a "real man." Sad world we live in. Seen many videos mocking and discriminating against men. Shaming for men is acceptable.

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Thank you to all the girls/ women of jamaa …

I want a practicing husband, thank you
I want a rich husband, thank you
I want a good looking husband, thank you
I want a hot husband, thank you
I want a kind husband, thank you
I want a funny husband, thank you
I want a strong husband, thank you
I want a sporty husband, thank you

Wallah, women are the most beautiful and most precious thing is this world …
🌹🌹🌹

All of that is motivation …

Prophet Muhammed peace be upon him said in his last sermon before his death
“Fear Allah regarding women! Verily, you have taken them as a trust from Allah, and your intimate relations have been made lawful by the word of Allah." Or as he said PBUH

However,

I just want u to want jannah first and help me and our family get there …

Agree to that and wallah,
I’d do all I can to be the most handsome, the hottest, the richest, the sportiest, the strongest, the kindest, the funniest and everything u want me to be in sha Allah

Because u deserve it all in sha Allah

Oh Allah grant us all spouses that cool our eyes in worship and in living ameen

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Anonymous

about 16 hours ago

Even she is aware. I have been saying it for the longest time. It is criminal to have white women included in DEI quotas and exclude brown / Asian men.

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Is anybody serious on this app?

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When a woman reveals parts of her body online, some people may view her as an object rather than a person.

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One post was about a hijabi girl talking about hooking up with a Muzz member, then he dumped her afterward, and she was asking what we think about it. Another post said that no verse in the Quran says Muslim women can’t marry men of the Book. I wonder if they are real Muslims or just trying to plant seeds.

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Anonymous

about 16 hours ago

Good morning

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