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I just want to share the chat I got this morning.
Sist n bro, have u ever got the same?
What do u say?
I think u should know sir @shaz
Assalamu Alaikum my habibi (yet to meet)!
I have pinned my marriage profile,
Kindly accept the application and give me the job of a husband!🤍😎
I’m not a perfect person. Sometimes I make mistakes and I have a few bad habits, but I’m always trying to improve and be the best partner I can be.
Also, if I reply with short answers sometimes, it doesn’t mean I’m not interested in talking. It usually just means I’m busy at that moment. When I have time, I truly enjoy having longer conversations.
Marriage used to be about lifelong vows - till death do us part. Unless there was abuse, violence or infidelity, couples used to be patient with each other, and grew together.
Feminism destroyed this beautiful institution by brain washing women. They made women believe that having a happy, stable family life was not enough. When you start to think that the grass is greener on the other side, you kill your own happiness.
And now marriages are breaking for reasons which are neither abuse, nor violence, nor infidelity. Here are some of the reasons, which has been implanted purely by the feminist ideology.
1. 'I felt bored and wanted excitement.'
He was loyal, a great provider, treated her like a queen, and never cheated but after a few years the daily routine felt flat to her.
Feminism taught her that marriage is supposed to be an endless romantic movie full of butterflies and adventure. So, she started looking outside for the thrill instead of building deeper connection with the solid man she already had.
- 'I lost myself in the marriage.'
She had stability, kids, a nice home, and a husband who supported her, but she claimed she no longer knew who she was.
Feminism drilled into her brain that being a wife and mother is oppressive and that she must 'find herself' even if it means blowing up her family. So she left to chase 'personal growth' while destroying the home that actually gave her identity and security.
- 'He was too nice and predictable.'
The same qualities that made him marriage material - calm, consistent, responsible, and non-dramatic suddenly became boring in her eyes.
Feminism romanticizes chaotic bad boys and 'excitement' while telling women that a stable, strong leader is beta and unworthy. She craved drama and challenge instead of appreciating the peace a good man provides.
- 'My friends said I deserved better.'
Outside voices played a huge role - single girlfriends, online therapists, Instagram influencers, and feminist content constantly whispered that she was settling.
Feminism conditions women to always keep one eye on the upgrade instead of investing in and protecting what they already have with their husband.
- 'I wanted to be independent and focus on my career.'
Even with a husband who supported her dreams, she felt marriage and family were holding her back from 'living her best life.'
Feminism sold her the lie that career success and solo independence are more fulfilling than building a legacy with a good man. Many regretted it later when the corporate world proved colder than home.
- 'The spark was gone.'
No abuse, no major fights - just normal life after years together with kids and responsibilities. Instead of working on reigniting attraction, polarity, and intimacy, she bailed because feminism tells women that when the initial feelings fade, you should leave.
- 'I needed to be happy and put myself first.'
This was the most repeated answer. Feminism turned marriage from a sacred team covenant into a personal happiness dispenser.
If it stopped making her feel constantly excited or fulfilled, she felt justified to walk away even from a 'perfect' husband. Selfishness disguised as self-love destroyed these homes."
- 'I thought I could do better on my own.'
Hypergamy in full effect. They believed single life or a new man would be an upgrade from the loyal, providing husband they had.
Feminism removed any shame around breaking vows and destroying families. Most later realized the grass was not greener, but by then the damage to their children and ex-husband was already done.
Modern women are leaving good men not because of mistreatment, but because feminism has poisoned their minds with entitlement, unrealistic expectations, and zero loyalty.
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When you make everything to do it, then erase everything and make your energy to power Punch 👊
When you are this deep into loving someone.
If there is a will.
There will be a way.