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Amongst the issues making Men are not chatting you women and leave the chat it's from you Women:
Once you are here for marriage: never expected knowing everything from the man before getting Married, the only thing and mostly important to know it's about his Faith Iman religiously issues, once you found it good, next is not know If he is not committing adultery, drinking alcohol, smoking, stealing, scamming, faking,......once you found that is not his behaviors, nothing else to keep waiting unless the wedding 💍 day.
I mean in Islam it's not about know everything about a person before getting married and the most important thing you can know them All in one day and nothing to be keep waiting unless the wedding date 📅
You can meet a person today and tomorrow it's your wedding 💍💒 with him.
You can Both see each other only Once in one week the wedding take place,
The exactly issues makes mostly Men are not serious too, they are not here to be behaving like a non Muslims, we are Muslims and we have our doctrine, don't keep copying a non Muslims life system as a pious Muslim Woman or Men .
Marriage can be taken places after chatting for only one day or you saw her only once a she also seems you only Once and immediately once Both are serious can get married.
This are the kind of men pushing you women to loose seriously Men.
Men are not here for playing or jocking but for something serious if you are serious too why keeping Long Chat your partner want to know everything about you in one Day to go to next steps for marriage, while you woman are taking time to reply or not even giving your True about you and Fake pic then once that serious man feel you are wasting his time how can Him keep chatting you again while you practically proof that you are not serious ??????
So if you really need marriage, once the person says after one month, you Tell him it's Too much let's engaged tomorrow instead of keep turning up down for nothing important instead destroying all his courage and efforts towards you.but you don't know.
If you are here for marriage then be serious about it and don't play Miss a step that follows your partner in order to realize your dreams if not you will finish All your time here finally keep accusing serious Men while you are definitely not serious too.
i’ve been thinking a lot lately about what “being ready for marriage” really means.
before, i thought it was all about timing, financial readiness, or how sure someone sounds. but i realized it’s deeper than that.
for me, readiness shows up in the small moments. like when someone hears ur “no” or ur limits, and instead of arguing, they respect it. when ur values don’t match, and they don’t try to convince u to be someone else just to make it work.
i’ve seen how serious someone can look on the outside, but if they can’t give u peace when u’re being honest, then maybe they’re just in love with the idea of marriage, not the responsibility that comes with it.
to me, a ready person brings calm, not pressure. they listen first. they let u be u.
maybe that’s why a lot of people rush into marriage, but not everyone is actually ready for it.
what do u guys think? how do u know when someone is truly ready?
I once dreamed deeply of a happy, respectful marriage. There was a gentleman who proposed; we agreed to wait 2 months and promised to wait for each other.
Then He invited me out for Eid — I honestly said I was busy. Only days later, when I said I'm Busy he went back to his ex‑girlfriend.
Soon she appeared on my feed, so I messaged her directly and asked: “Are you in a relationship?” — and she clearly replied: “Yes.”
I learned they were already together since May 31, planning their wedding… while still letting me believe in our promise. Since officially we were not yet in a relationship, I chose with dignity: to let him go.
My answer “busy” was never the real cause — it was just the moment he used to step away. I thought we waited together… but only I kept my word. I release all pain now — sincerity was mine, truth was missing. My heart heals, my worth stays high, and my beautiful dream remains — for someone who truly means it. 🤍✨
I joined Muzz believing it could be a blessed platform for Muslims to find a spouse in a halal way. But it saddens me to see some comment sections filled with people degrading one another.☹️
Not every woman is materialistic. Just as not every man has bad intentions. Generalising an entire gender because of past experiences only creates more division.
If you've been hurt, I genuinely hope you heal. But a Muslim marriage app shouldn't become a place to project anger, bitterness, or frustration onto strangers who have done nothing to you.
We all come here with different stories, hopes, and fears. The least we can offer each other is respect, kindness, and husn al-dhann (thinking well of others).
Instead of bashing each other, let's change our mindset. Heal. Grow. Make sincere du'a. Then, insyaAllah, you'll be in a much better place to meet the right person.
May Allah grant everyone a spouse who brings peace, love, and barakah. Ameen.
First time ever, i have been click with someone same energy as me. Let's see how it's goes. I hope this time and the one
There are no genuine people here and even if you happen to find one by chance their requirements are so high it’s like they’re Maryam Nawaz daughter. 🤭😵💫