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Why "Date" is important before Rishta ? What is your first preference after conversation a man/woman? Is it Allowed (Jaize) in Islam?
Why do so many marriages struggle today?
Is it because people have become more selfish... Or because expectations have become unrealistic?
Sometimes we prepare for the wedding, but never prepare for marriage.
What's the one quality you believe is disappearing from modern relationships?
Some people don't want a long distance relationship, then why join this site? I feel confused
Assallamualaikum every Jumma day Allhamdulillah May Allah blessed us beautiful friday yarabb 🤲🏻
You know, marriage isn't just about having someone when you need them. It's not just about feeling loved, supported, or excited when things are new. Marriage is about choosing to stay even when things get quiet. Even when the feelings fade and comfort turns into routine. What truly holds it all together isn't just love. It's rahmah.
Sakinah may begin the journey. That peace when you first come together, when everything feels calm and right. Mawaddah keeps it sweet for a while. The affection, the closeness, the desire. But when those things change or disappear, rahmah is what keeps the relationship alive. Mercy. The act of showing care even when it isn't easy. The decision to keep choosing your person, not because of feelings, but because of responsibility and compassion.
Rahmah is the backbone of a lasting marriage. It's what carries you both through old age, through difficulty, through moments when you're not sure what's left. Without rahmah, marriages don't last. So don't just look for sparks. Look for someone you can be merciful with, and someone who will do the same for you.
To all men,
NO WOMAN
wants to constantly yell, argue, stress, cry, or live in fight or flight mode.
She wants to be SOFT, but that only happens when you make her feel SAFE first.
Investment is important in every aspect of life. We invest our time, money, energy, and even our health, hoping that what we build will grow in value and not be lost.
Marriage is no different. It is one of the most significant investments a person can make. Before placing your heart and efforts into it, you must be sure you are starting in the right place, with the right person, and on the right foundation.
Because just like any investment, the beginning matters the most—and choosing wisely can determine whether it grows or fades away.
Why are people here so dramatic and always making every here sound so hard and really dramatic
Life is really so harsh bema fe el kefaya bgd ?!