All things marriage

Being single and trying to mingle is the struggle of the 21 st century.

Bruh just trying to find a down to earth Muslim lady in my age group thats a flower without thorns.

Subhanallah.

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When I signed in this application I wrote my bio ,I am not one the one u r searching for & Actually every experience here in the application showed me that iam not the one u r searching for 😂😂🫣🫣

Using this apps this year, really different from another year before.
I barely match with someone. Mybe because hiding my profile. Err.., that is the obvious reason.
But , to someone i like, literally, they can see it but still… it didnt work?? I dont understand the math, why? My profile? Do i look that ugly to them? Or any trigger bio that makes me a red flag? Hurmmm

I’m finding a seemingly consistent trend on here where when I state my preferences women can’t take it…. But I’ve had to spend 20 years of hearing their rejections based on preferences and accepting it gracefully!

I don’t care if I remain forever single for wanting what I want. I’d rather that, then settling for what I don’t.

Not perfect, but am average looking, average height and average build. But Alhumdullilah I’ve reached multi millionaire status but most women don’t know it - they just think I’m stable as I own my own house.

I’m 39 and I don’t want a woman with a past - Because I don’t have one. Fair enough I’ll probably never find her now as young women don’t want older men and older women generally all have a past and baggage, which I’m just never going to be comfortable in accepting.

But here’s the thing - I don’t get why women can’t put themselves in a certain man’s shoes. If a man has no past, why would he want a woman with several bodies notched up. And to whom marriage gives immediately entitlement to half the wealth he’s worked worked to accumulate (as 99% won’t accept a pre nup) - He’d also be expected to pay for IVF if her fertility’s affected due to her taking he sweet time and rejecting
good men who were available in her youth but were overlooked just because they thought ‘they could do better”. There were always good men who are overlooked when in their prime and then wanted when older once enough time has been wasted and the “fun years” spent.

It may sound like generalisation but I’ve spoken to several hundred women on here for over 10 years and there’s definitely a trend.

For half decent pious men who haven’t messed around and have spent their youth working hard for the future so as to have a family, we just fall through the cracks and are expected to be happy to settle for what’s left.

I actually get why good average successful men are remaining single. It’s a bad deal for us.

Peace over chaos means solitude over false company in the modern world. It’s better people stay single - marriage has depleted value anymore to good men of a certain age.

You guys don’t have to worry when people match you and ask for whatsapp number.with no time no more conversation there but atleast you guys saved each others number,you have benefits my dear!don’t you know about contact gain🤣are you not doing any business ?🤣
One day he will transfer from a lover to customer abi😂
Use your number 9😜😎

Hey there

Hay all

Hi

On dating apps, what do you usually do if someone suddenly stops communicating with you for 3 days? Even tough the last communication running good..

⏳ Would you still waiting until they contact you again?
📱 Would you reach out to them first and ask why they disappeared?
🏃🏻‍♀️ Would you automatically decide to move on and stop contacting them?
💬 Another opinion (write here)......