All things marriage

Hi am from Lebanon age 27

Why do people switch up?
Less than a year ago, I met a guy who treated me with so much kindness, patience, and respect. We agreed to keep things halal and only met twice before involving our parents. Wedding conversations happened, a date was set, deposits were paid, outfits were chosen ,everything was moving forward.
But somewhere along the way, things changed. Now he loses his temper quickly, gets defensive, and argues back. Whenever I try to communicate how I feel, instead of addressing the issue, he shuts the conversation down with things like, “Please stop being mad at me.” He doesn’t swear at me, but it feels like any attempt at discussing a problem turns into defensiveness rather than understanding.
I’ve communicated my concerns about his temper so many times that I’ve reached a point where I feel completely drained. The person I’m dealing with now doesn’t feel like the same person I fell in love with.
After waiting, doing things the right way, and trying so hard to make this work, I can’t help but feel like I’ve wasted so much time. I feel stuck between my own feelings and the fear of disappointing my parents by calling off the wedding.
Has anyone else ever felt like the person they were about to marry became someone completely different?

Hey there 👋

I've learned that people who never take responsibility will eventually make everyone else responsible for the damage they caused. That's why distance is sometimes the healthiest response.

Sorry but most of people here are crony

I like to talk things out, I love clarity. I'm an adult,
communicate🤌

Gender wars be like: women are too educated nowadays!

Women have the right to say no!

It’s an issue??

So… are you saying you want to live your life with someone dumb, and your kids raised by someone with lesser education who can’t teach them their rights? Also why do you want someone who didn’t consent to marrying you 🫪

Right ladies, I’m a single father to two grown up children. I’m 46 years old and I keep getting told I look mid 30s and I’m really good looking for my age. I’m posting this is anonymous as I don’t want to come across as boastful. But every woman I seem to talk to thinks I’m great but it leads to nowhere. Only one person I’ve actually been seeing for a little while in the last 10 years said I was the best person she’s ever met… then went back to her ex! Like what is this world all about? Please can you help me understand how these women think??

Joint family is soulful

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