All things marriage

Dear Brother/Sister?

What legacy are you leaving behind when you die?

• -Because you definitely gonna die!

• Is it?

• -Short comedy videos?
• -Music?
• -Vulgar words?
• -Nudity?
• -Pictures?

• Or do you’ve any sadaqatul jariyah?

• -If not, get as much as you can.

"Hey fam! 😊 Just checking in, how's life treating you? 🍹"

I matched with a guy on here named saif khan, he is around 26-27 (i forget exactly) and i kept putting up with his late replies on the app, i confronted him and he said he's DEFINITELY interested but cant make time cuz of his job (literally no job is that hard for u to not reply once a day). He even accepted himself and told me on here that "I am known to never reply". I just dont get why you're on a texting app if you can't reply and playing with a woman's feelings to begin with.

Long story short, we talked for like a month almost and he had OUR MOMS talk on call, and then the next day, he GHOSTED me. I had told him after the call with our moms to text me when he's free but he never did.

During this whole situation, I was the one constantly asking what the F is the situation with you and how should we move forward, when he used to not be on this app for days. It was painful honestly.

I unmatched and blocked him, and after that I cried and was sad for a couple of days (it still stings when i think about it tbh) and deactivated my account for some time.

Another month wasted by yet another dude who doesnt wanna put in any effort but will lead you on for GOD KNOWS WHAT.

I am sick and tired and I have cried so many times because of this exact app in front of Allah. I have seen dudes on here that don't match with me most probably because I wear hijab, and these dudes have been on this app for as long as I have (almost a year), so they are not getting anywhere close to getting married either.

If you are one of them and reading this, great job 👏 not matching with a hijabi, who is wearing hijab because it is an OBLIGATION in Islam. But no, you would rather go for the ones that show more skin and body. Says a lot about men in general of this generation. #haramis

I sincerely pray that these type of men have their marriage delayed till they are old and wrinkly, and then no one wants to marry them. Ameen.

Do you have a friends with benefits or cuddle buddy situationship until you find somebody to marry? We are adults we have needs how long can a person stay patient without any intimacy? somebody needs to make a NGL for this topic so people can spill their secrets

https://youtube.com/shorts/vCIuA1Iv_as?si=QHQMnbxxdFSC-T40

FYI shared custody of kids is a green flag! I just can’t with some people 🤦‍♀️

I'm so afraid to marry a DL/gay 😭
Do u have any tips to recognize them in order to avoid them? 😅

There are two kinds of people on this app

The rigid , conservative, narrow-minded ones
They always put a girl in the witness box for endless allegations, all because of their own insecurities,past relationships and stereotype mindset.
Banana beard mindset
(Mhje ase logo ki smhj ni aati Jo saaf ki chakkar me insan ke character ka he safaya kr jaty hn)
Possession r conservative hone me bhttttt difference h
Human brain is toxic if u not control ur thoughts.....

The other category is extremely liberal
Their perception
Free will
Go with the flow
No rules and regulations
No concept of creater
Friends with benefits
No concept of good and bad deeds
Enjoy the life

Kuch log Yahan ase hn jo khud 2 marle ke ghr me rhty hn (Allah barkat dae unhy ameeeeen) mgr larki 8k ki cream r 16k ki shampoo wali chaye (I would appreciate that men 🤣🤣🤣)

Hello I am new here some one want to talk with me ?

Salam everyone, looking for a partner serious about it drop me a message if Intrested jazakallah❤️