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Struggling to find men 25 and older attractive because most of them starting to look like uncles? Anyone else have this issue?

Perhaps the hardest part of seeking marriage is not the waiting, but watching others arrive where you have long hoped to be.

Yet existence has never unfolded according to comparison. A flower does not fail because it blooms after another; the sky does not apologize for bringing dawn at its own hour.

Maybe the soul is not delayed—it is being prepared. Maybe every unanswered hope is quietly shaping the person who will one day recognize your heart without explanation.

Until then, let your life remain full. For a person who learns to walk peacefully through solitude does not wait for love out of emptiness, but welcomes it from wholeness.

4 days left til the subscription ended and I will delete this app for good. Still no sign to get the right match. Guess my one is not here 😌😂

Need someone serious for marriage soon

Our initial introduction to Muzz was so reassuring, we finally decided to continue after all this time. When we exchanged WhatsApp numbers, the most surprising thing was...
He uses WhatsApp business and he spams up to 3 WhatsApp business numbers!!! 💥🤣
Oh my goodness... I'm still wondering why you're using WhatsApp Business? What does that mean?could it be that he is a player???

I just came across a post that’s getting a lot of attention, basically saying this app is a waste of time.

I went through the comments and I didn’t really like the direction the discussion was taking, so I decided to share my own thoughts and experience here. Maybe it helps someone, maybe it doesn’t.

I’ve been on this app for quite a while now. I’m still looking, figuring things out as I go. So this is just my personal observation, nothing overly theoretical.

I don’t think the app is the problem. I think the app simply exposes something that already exists in human behaviour.

When you are presented with the possibility of having so many options, it’s easy to feel like there’s always someone better just one swipe away. That illusion slowly affects your judgment. Instead of asking yourself, “is this person compatible with me?”, you start asking, “can I find someone better?”

From there, people start filtering others for different reasons like; “not attractive enough”, “different background”, “from third world country”, “not my ideal type”, “I don’t like the vibe”, “not my ideal physique” and so on. As time passes, this filtering transforms into a habit of searching, instead of choosing.

But while this continues, life is also moving for everyone else. The people who you once overlooked are not staying in the same place. They grow, they meet others, they change, and their options change as well their expectations.

So eventually, you are faced with the reality that; the people you thought you could always come back to, don’t find you compatible with them anymore. Likewise, the people you once dismissed or rejected, will no longer consider you either. At that point, it becomes easy to conclude that the app is a waste of time.

But I don’t think that’s accurate. I think what many people experience is the result of an illusion of unlimited choice, combined with the assumption that there will always be a “better option” waiting, which leads them to waste their own time without even realizing it.

I personally think compatibility is not about finding perfection. It is about recognizing alignment when it exists and being intentional enough not to miss it.

This is just my observation, based on my own experience here. I could be wrong, but I think it’s something worth reflecting on.

My heart can’t take this… I’m about to give up on trying to find a real relationship and marriage. It’s like there’s no one genuine or that truly wants to commit anymore. Just lies, men that don’t want to commit or even give the bare minimum, match with you and then ghost you, trying to get a green card out of you. I’m just over it it shouldn’t be this hard! You would think I’m asking for the hope diamond or something. I’m simply asking for the possibility of something genuine and real. I want to meet a good Muslim man and we build a foundation together, grow in our Islamic faith together, get married, have babies, have a home together. I’m not materialistic, I’m not high maintenance, I’m not selfish. I don’t want luxurious lifestyle, cars, houses, clothes, jewelry, etc. I don’t care about that kind of stuff and I never have! I’m very low maintenance and simple. I’m so disgusted and discouraged at this point I’m ready to give up and just be by myself. So sad what dating/relationships/marriage has turned into. It’s all a s*** show at this point. It’s infuriating and annoying to keep running into the same people. Even in an app like muzz that is supposed to be serious and halal. I’ve had men be inappropriate and disrespectful, always trying to get me to go on WhatsApp, lying about what their intent is or where they live, lying about being married and having kids. I could go on and on the list is endless and I’m sick of it! No one is serious anymore and it shows in how most of us that are looking for something real are treated on these apps. I’m convinced there’s no one decent out here anymore. I’m getting more matches from outside of the US than here. I don’t want to date abroad. It’s too difficult with my lupus, my family being here and immigration being locked down the way it is in the states how is that gonna work? I’m so frustrated and mad I could scream. It’s not supposed to be easy but it’s not supposed to be this damn difficult either. I see why so many men and women are single now because who has time for this mess?! Just breaks my heart because I’ve dreamed of having someone special in my life since I was a little girl and I’m now 32. Childbearing years coming to an end and no hope in sight. Just dealt with someone for 6 years to find out he didn’t really want a relationship and wasted all of that time to start all over and have to put up with this nonsense. I’m over this world and the people in it. At this point I’d rather be by myself then to keep being broken down and being put through this endless loop of pain and having my time wasted repeatedly by people that simply don’t care or don’t want anything real in the first place. Stop playing with peoples feelings, emotions and hearts if you are not willing to commit or want something real why are you on an app like muzz anyway? Do all of us a favor and this if you that are not genuine or being honest go find one of the many hookup apps out there that’s waiting for you but don’t keep putting good people through your web of lies and deception. It’s not fair and I hope and pray Allah leads us to people that are better than what’s in this app. So sad and because I thought this was a Muslim based app I was hoping for better and things to be kept halal. This app leaves much to be desired…. 💔🥺

Guys do you feel recently there is alot of ai botted accounts ?

Assalamualaikum all, sharing our new article on Money and Marriage as part of the work we do at AML finance.

Please have a read through and share your thoughts.

We will also be writing more as we go along and are open to suggestions on different topics to write for.

https://www.instagram.com/p/Dac9hCJgBa0/?igsh=MXR2ZjJ5Z2twMnYyMQ==

https://muslimmatters.org/2026/06/30/when-tawakkul-isnt-enough-why-financial-silence-hurts-marriages/