All things marriage

I wish Jamaa was more engaging for normal posts. Jamaa unfortunately gives more screentime to controversial posts than normal posts. If it wasn't so bad people would have been talking more about science, philosophy, arts, war, economics, etc but no Jamaa likes controversial posts and people have learned this too so they post controversial things related to marriage and relationship for engagement. It's a toxic engagement cycle. I left Muzz many months ago hoping I'd continue on Jamaa just to talk to people about life and stuffs but damn this place is full of toxic people who have been unsuccessful in relationship and marriages. Well mine isn't better but I don't indulge myself too much into marriage and relationships like it the only thing to talk about in life. I don't know why some people on this app are so obsessively online, talking about marriages and relationships like there's nothing else to do in life. I legit think most of these people are just ***** and frustrated. And some of those people on this app are so online like it's the only social media media app on their phone. They spend their whole day on this app trying to be the No.1 content creator. They've made a cult following here, if you criticise them then their whole followers will jump on you. I mean come on peoole there's a whole world outside this app. And life isn't all about marriages and relationships. Suppose marriage and children isn't written on your fate so what will you do in life? Will you not continue to live your life, find a hobby and busy yourself with more important things in life? Or will you become a toxic and frustrated person online hating on the opposite gender? This is not how life is meant to be. You'll become a reflection of your negative thoughts. Distract yourself from those things and enjoy your life doing something important. Life isn't about marriages it's about worshiping Allah. And being good to other people is part of worshiping Allah. Please find a hobby people. Read books, watch podcast, start painting or gardening, etc. Don't waste your precious time online on foolish things.
P.S. This post isn't about any specific individual but if you do fall into this category please touch some grass(Like real grass in park not metaphor)

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Hello everyone

Not having the motivation or energy to start this ever again but yearning for that love and connection is a weird place to be in

Had a conversation with another lady recently about physical intimacy in marriage. And we both agreed that in a long-term relationship it can get a bit boring if there's no conscious effort.

I don't know how men experience this, but for women there needs to be some element of novelty from time to time to keep things exciting.

There was a great comment I heard from a coach once who said: In marriage you can't be playing the Greatest Hits record in the bedroom every time - meaning you can't always be doing what usually works and what's tried and tested. You need variety.

Hi,Assalamualikum gays..

Marriage is just like Rizq, and rizq comes when Allah wills, not when you desire. It comes the way Allah plans,not the way you want. Just as rizq reaches you no matter where you are, the right spouse will also find their way to you when your qadr aligns. Trust the timing of Allah.

I miss the version of me that used to be happy for no reason. Now, even the things I once loved feel empty, and every day feels like I'm just surviving instead of living.

You can't break a woman who has learnt so much in life; woman who has faced family issues, financial problems, career stress, relationship trauma, heartbreak, betrayal, and still never give up on her life, or even for herself.