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The reason why 30+ chaste never married men will remain single forever and the fornciators get married is because the zina'a use sexual energy to seduce men and women. These people will forever remain chasing intimacy. Even in a marriage they will eventually cheat or remain unhappy.
A chaste man is reserved, you cannot tempt him with your feet, red lips pouting, figure showing, eye lashes and nails.
Good women are for good men? Then why do men end up with a promiscious women and women end up with bad men?
Just looking at society today, women and men who claim to be chaste and say Allah forgave him for his zina so yes I would marry him/her. These are the problem, women often do this as they are desperate and biologically at 30+ they become restless lowering this standard in the name of deen. Saying if Allah forgave him, i should too etc, consoling themselves that this is the correct way in deen. People often follow their own versions of islam.
Often after they marry, the guy cheats, they divorce and are left feeling used. Now they are wondering why no one marries a divorced woman. Its sunnah, it's for a real man. The Prophet peace be upon him married Khadijah RA.
You are not Khadijah RA, the comparison of yourself with her character doesn't even come close. Nor do you hold wealth like hers. Them marriages were to further the islamic cause, most of the marriages were political and were done to show its permissbility not to set a standard of marrying divorce women nor is the virtue higher than that of a never married woman.
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