All things marriage

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Assalamualaikum everyone,

This isn’t my usual post, but I wanted to share my story.

For the past month, I’ve been carrying a lot of pain. I was in a relationship for almost 8 years with the sincere intention of marriage. When the time finally came, I spoke to my parents and they agreed. She also told me that once she convinced her parents, we would get married.

Instead, everything changed.

I was told her parents had heard negative things about my character and didn’t want me as their son-in-law. That hurt the most because my intentions were always honest. After eight years, being judged by rumors instead of my actions was something I never expected.

Our last conversation was peaceful. She said she was happy with her decision and that it was best for us not to contact each other anymore. I respected her choice, made dua that Allah grants her a happy life, and let her go.

Ironically, before we ended things, she recommended I try Muzz to find someone for marriage. Hearing that from the person I had imagined spending my life with was one of the hardest moments I’ve experienced.

I joined this app hoping to move forward. I’ve met a few people, but I also realized that healing takes time, and that marriage apps aren’t easy. Sometimes having endless options makes it harder to build one meaningful connection.

I’ve come to believe that whatever Allah has written for us will reach us at the right time. Whether I meet my future wife here, through family, or somewhere else, I trust that Allah knows what’s best.

If you’re reading this and going through heartbreak, don’t lose hope. Sometimes what we planned isn’t what Allah planned, and His plan is always wiser.

May Allah grant all of us righteous spouses and make our journey easy.

Have a blessed day.

Honestly,
I dislike men who act inappropriately using lewd language and acting improperly and who view women as cheap, *****, easy, or "loose,"
Looking down on them and treating them as if they have absolutely no self worth.
I really don't like that kind of behavior.
if you've just met someone via chat, the conversation shouldn't immediately veer into inappropriate territory (Of course, if two people are married, that’s a different story) .
When both parties are unmarried even if a woman has been married before, has children, and spent twenty years in a marriage she needs to be more guarded and self aware after a divorce.
It is far better to focus on worship and drawing closer to Allah earning spiritual rewards rather than committing sins.
It is much better to keep the conversation normal and appropriate for two people who have just met exchanging greetings and getting to know one another rather than acting like a married couple.

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Hi

Nice

A question for married working women: As a married working woman, which option is better: to leave your job and stay at home, or to keep your job? And if you keep your job, how do you balance work and home life?

I’m making a better dating app than muzz because Muzz is failing on quite a few areas. Let me know what features you guys want below 👇

If one more aunt asks when am getting married, I will marry her husband…..😆😆