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Insomnia is real.
The question is: what causes it?
Is it stress? Poor habits? Modern lifestyles? Unresolved thoughts? Genetics? Too much screen time? Something else entirely?
Say a woman is genuinely interested in a man… What’s the most respectful, non-flirtatious thing she could say to get a brother to notice her and reply if she were to slide into his DMs? Or is it an immediate turn-off and makes her seem too forward or desperate?
I want to know from your point of view what makes a relationship successful and prevents boredom or alienation if both partners overcome their problems, which are almost trivial but end the relationship.
From a man's perspective, who is the one he'll never forget? ...And for women, who is the one you'd fight the world for?
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Collected from The Ideal Muslimah
Everytime life gets heavy I want you to remember this beautiful verse.
📖 "To Allah is your return, and He is Able to do all things."
{Surah Hud 11: Verse 4}
This short verse carries immense comfort, accountability, and hope. It reminds us of two realities: where we are going and Who we are going back to.
"To Allah is your return..."
Every journey in this world ends with a return to Allah.
Whether a person is rich or poor, healthy or sick, married or single, loved or forgotten by people, every soul is moving toward the same destination. We spend so much time worrying about what others think of us, what we have lost, or what tomorrow will bring, but Allah redirects our focus to the ultimate reality: our return is to Him.
The one who wronged you will return to Allah.
The one who broke your heart will return to Allah.
The one who was unjust, arrogant, or cruel will return to Allah.
And you too will return to Allah.
This should comfort the oppressed and humble the oppressor.
The second part of this verse..
"...and He is Able to do all things."
Allah ends the verse by reminding us of His absolute power.
He is able to forgive every sin.
He is able to heal every wound.
He is able to replace every loss.
He is able to soften the hardest heart.
He is able to change circumstances in a single moment.
He is able to answer a dua that seems impossible.
When life feels overwhelming, believers remember that their problems are never bigger than Allah's power.
What seems impossible to us is effortless for Him.
🌸 6 Lessons From This Verse
🌿 1. This world is not the final destination
Many of our worries come from forgetting that this life is temporary. Success is not measured by worldly achievements alone, but by how we meet Allah when we return to Him.
🌿 2. Every injustice will be addressed
Sometimes justice does not come in this world. People may hurt us and never apologize. They may move on while we carry the scars.
But Allah sees everything.
The return to Allah means that no oppression, betrayal, or tear is forgotten.
🌿 3. Never lose hope in Allah's mercy
No matter how many mistakes a person has made, Allah is able to forgive them completely if they sincerely repent.
A dark past does not limit Allah's mercy.
🌿 4. Never despair over your situation
Are you struggling to get married?
Allah is able to provide.
Are you trapped in grief?
Allah is able to heal.
Are you burdened by debt?
Allah is able to enrich.
Are you battling loneliness?
Allah is able to send companionship.
The One who created the heavens and the earth is not limited by your circumstances.
🌿 5. Live with accountability
Knowing that we will return to Allah should make us careful with our words, actions, and treatment of others.
Every kindness matters.
Every injustice matters.
Every hidden deed matters.
Nothing is lost with Allah.
🌿 6. Put your trust in Allah
When you truly believe that Allah is able to do all things, anxiety begins to soften. You still take the means. You still make effort. But your heart learns to rest in the knowledge that outcomes belong to Allah.
There are moments when life feels uncertain and the future looks unclear. In those moments, this verse gently reminds us:
You do not belong to your problems.
You do not belong to your fears.
You do not belong to the opinions of people.
You belong to Allah, and to Allah is your return.
And the One you are returning to is Able to do all things.
"To Allah is your return, and He is Able to do all things."
🤲 May Allah protect us always and may we return to Him azza wa jal in the state most pleasing to Him with qalbun saleem - ameen!
- -Shamsiya Noorul Quloob