All things marriage

Well, I've noticed that many people here don't like to read long posts, thinking it's too long. But I think it should be read more and read more carefully. Maybe it's something we need to do somewhere in our lives. The depth we are looking for in small posts, you always understand the person with clarity, depth does not understand by everyone. So always present the depth of your words with clarity. Never pick up a hard dictionary or hard vocabulary word to show depth in one word except choose clarity long explanation ,while choosing the words that shows your thinking,understanding depth in any point

NOTE: aur kya haal hai twada😁😜🤪👀

Death takes no bribes

Every blessing we have is a gift from Allah SWT, not proof of our superiority.

Sadly, it has become common for some people to mock or look down on those who are unmarried. They say whatever they want, laugh about it and then dismiss it by saying “I was only joking.”

From the unrealistic expectations created by social media to the changing realities of the world, the struggle is very real for many Muslim men and women.

If Allah has blessed you with a righteous spouse and children, be grateful and humble. Do not belittle those whose chapter has not yet begun.

This life is a test but everyone’s exam paper is different. Before you mock or belittle someone, remember that the tables can turn.

Do not take your blessings for granted. Fear Allah lest He tests you tomorrow with the very things you boast about today. There are countless stories of people who had beautiful marriages, only to later cry tears of blood because of the heartbreak caused by their spouses or children.

Focus on fixing your own life and your own home. You are probably not even fulfilling the very purpose for which you were created which is to worship Allah, yet you find time to mock others. Instead, take this opportunity to reflect on yourself. Do you not feel any shame when you belittle people?

Do not take the sabr of others for granted. If you break someone’s heart, you may invite a heavy trial or experience the same pain in your own life because of the hurt you caused.

To those who are still waiting, remain patient and continue turning to Allah. Your value is not defined by your marital status. Allah sees every hardship, every tear and every sacrifice made for His sake.

May Allah guide our tongues to speak words that heal rather than hurt and protect us from arrogance, mockery and harming others. Ameen.

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1. ABRAHAM > 3 WIVES
2. JACOB > 4 WIVES
3. DAVID > 8 WIVES AND MANY CONCUBINES
4. SOLOMON > 700 WIVES, 300 CONCUBINES
5. REHOBOAM > 18 WIVES, 60 CONCUBINES
6. ABIJAH > 14 WIVES
7. LAMECH > 2 WIVES
8. ELKANAH > 2 WIVES

WILL THESE GUYS WITH MULTIPLE WIVES GO TO HEAVEN OR HELL ACCORDING TO THE HOLY BIBLE?

Hey guys, I made a post today and in the comment section, a guy told me that yes, That Today's woman are only want to marry to a man who earns a lot of money and only then will she go and support that man in good times and bad throughout his life, and it is the Muslim woman of today who is doing all this. We cannot relate to Islamic teachings about today's woman.

What do you mean by all these or what has happened to these men? You are just judging this because a girl has demanded that the guy should be well settled now

A woman becomes like this only when she has seen such things in her life and has felt that she gets everything, peace and freedom if she has money.
It's not their fault either. Well, if they are making this demand, they are doing it for their own safety. Earlier, women didn't care about their own safety. They were just told, "girl, you have to get married."
When women today see those women who used to think only of marriage and peace, they used to get married thinking that their lives would be easier, and when they (today's women)see them in pain, getting killed getting tortured, getting physical & mentally & spiritually abused .they Then these women changed their views and thought, "No, man, life is not just about this, but we have to do it this way, we will keep our safety, then we can live peacefully in life.
"Because today's women know that in the past, if a man was struggling with business, he would pray, cry to Allah, go to Allah, cry, and ask his wife to pray for him. He used to improve his treatment or behavior with his wife. Because the Holy Quran says that whatever sustenance you have is due to the fortune of a woman.

Apart from this, many such women get divorced because of their in-laws, father-in-law, brother-in-law, etc. And the husband who is with her cannot even see the truth in what she says۔
(I'm not talking about everyone, but most of them.)(And I'm not saying that all women are right, but rather that men also make mistakes, women also make mistakes, and in many cases, in-laws also make mistakes)
. But today's man, if he is not well settled, due to any tension in his business or due to a fight outside, inside, then he takes out his frustration on his wife at home. Considering all this and seeing and growing up seeing these things, then that the reason the view of women has changed. Marriage should not be done in a place where the boy is not mature enough to live his own with his wife & children
(And here I am not saying that you should stay away from your parents and keep your wife in a separate house. I am saying that if you can see right from wrong for your wife, You can distinguish between right and wrong and you can walk with the truth and the right. You can stand. You can take a stand. Then you are eligible for marriage, if you say, "No, I can't convince my mother, I can't convince my father, I can't convince my sister, you will have to sacrifice yourself." Then it's wrong. You are not eligible to marry ....),
so that they both can avoid such things that happen in which the man and the woman are humiliated and suffer mentally and physically.

NOTE: Not all women have the same perspective. Behind everything, every woman has a different perspective. Even if something is the same, everyone has a different way of looking at it. Here I am telling the difference between a greedy woman and a woman who changes her point of view on life because of her difficulties in life.. Not all women are greedy They just want an easy life and a good future for their children, and they don't want their children to see the things they have seen. They go with this ideology and take these things with them. , but there are some women who, despite being greedy, still keep this point in mind for their luxury cravings

I hope you all understands & agreed 💯

My name is Rao Mubashir. I am a professional Graphic Designer and Video Editor with a stable job, and I also work as a freelancer online. Alhamdulillah, I am hardworking, responsible, and focused on building a successful future.

I am looking for a sincere, respectful, and family-oriented life partner for marriage. My intention is serious, and I hope to find someone who values trust, understanding, and mutual respect in a relationship.

If anyone knows a suitable match or is interested, please feel free to contact me. May Allah guide us all to what is best.

Huge Respect👏👏👏

For girls: how do you all manage creepy people on this app. Some are really disgusting

Ladies- If your husband lost his job, would you use some of your mehr to help pay the bills while he looked for a new job?