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Is this really matrimonial app still in 2026 ?

Marriage search cheat sheet:

1. If he/she responds once or twice a day, no explanation for late replies that span many hours or days, no courtesy. Then cut losses, wish luck and move on.

2. If within 2 months of regular talking about self, life, life after marriage, expectations and few meetups, they still havent involved family, then cut losses, wish luck and move on.

3. The head of a male that talks between 9pm to 9am is not the same head that they use for thinking.

4. If they dont wanna add you on socials, after months of regular talking, then they are hiding something.

5. If they want to get physical before marriage, they dont want to marry you.

6. Past matters, old habits die hard. Both genders. Zina is addictive, ask people who married zanis, are their spouses loyal ?

7. Males, if she does not pray or follow religion at all, brings religion only when its about money, and says mine is mine yours is mine, that gives selfish vibes. Run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️

8. Females, if he has bad friends, gaslights you on your body, makeup, anything, insults you, run 🏃‍♂️

9. Females - nothing wrong with your parents handling the search. They will filter mess. No guy looks for hookups when their mother is involved in process.

10. No one likes filtered, makeup overloaded pics. Everyone should be able to see latest atleast 3-4 pics of the next person. Its a matter of life, no one deserves one pic, blurred pics or such bs. Its time waste.

11. Females - involve father in search. Males can evaluate other males better.

Technically, anyone has the right to use the block button. However, ethically and socially, suddenly blocking someone without a strong justification is considered behavior that lacks politeness and maturity in communication.

To understand the matter objectively, we need to distinguish between “personal right” and “communication ethics”:

1. When is sudden blocking justified and completely acceptable?

This behavior is logical and perfectly understandable in cases of clear misconduct, such as:

Being subjected to verbal abuse or insults.

Harassment or receiving inappropriate content.

Threats or feeling unsafe.

Persistent and annoying insistence after asking the person to stop communicating.

In these cases, blocking is a legitimate means of protection and does not require any warning or explanation.

2. When is sudden blocking considered immature behavior?

On the other hand, if the conversation was normal and one of the following occurred:

A misunderstanding of a joke or expression.

Realizing that there is no compatibility or “chemistry” between the two people.

A difference in opinions or viewpoints.

In such cases, suddenly blocking someone without a closing word is considered tasteless behavior. A mature person has the moral courage to write a simple message such as: “Sorry, I think our styles are different, and I don’t believe this connection will continue. I wish you all the best,” and then end the conversation.

Running away and using “blocking” as an easy solution is a sign of weakness in confrontation and communication skills.
تقنياً يحق لأي شخص استخدام زر الحظر، لكن أخلاقياً واجتماعياً، الحظر المفاجئ دون مبرر قوي يُعتبر تصرفاً يفتقر إلى اللباقة والنضج في التواصل.
​لفهم الأمر بموضوعية، يجب أن نفرق بين "الحق الشخصي" وبين "أخلاقيات التواصل":
​1. متى يكون الحظر المفاجئ مبرراً ومقبولاً تماماً؟
​يكون هذا التصرف منطقياً ولا غبار عليه في حالات التجاوز الواضح، مثل:
​التعرض للإساءة اللفظية أو الشتائم.
​التحرش أو إرسال محتوى غير لائق.
​التهديد أو الشعور بعدم الأمان.
​الإصرار المزعج بعد طلب التوقف عن التواصل.
في هذه الحالات، الحظر هو وسيلة حماية مشروعة ولا تتطلب أي إنذار أو تبرير.
​2. متى يكون الحظر المفاجئ تصرفاً غير ناضج؟
​في المقابل، إذا كان الحوار عادياً وحدث ما يلي:
​سوء فهم لمزحة أو تعبير.
​اكتشاف عدم وجود توافق أو "كيمياء" بين الطرفين.
​اختلاف في وجهات النظر.
في هذه الحالات، يُعد الحظر المفاجئ دون كلمة إنهاء تصرفاً قليل الذوق. الإنسان الناضج يمتلك الشجاعة الأدبية لكتابة رسالة بسيطة مثل: "عذراً، أسلوبنا مختلف ولا أعتقد أن هذا التعارف سيستمر، أتمنى لك التوفيق"، ثم ينهي المحادثة. الهروب واستخدام "الحظر" كحل سهل هو دليل على ضعف في مهارات المواجهة والتواصل.

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👎🏼6 Signs of Low Self-Awareness 💬 1) Always has to be right • even when the facts and evidences point to them, they'll never admit it. 🥀 2) Constantly hiding behind their intent • excuse their actions through their intentions, w/o acknowledging their behavior. 3) Blames everyone else unjustly. 📉 4) Get defensive when they're given feedback • no self reflection • energy goes back to protecting their ego, instead of understanding themself 💭 5) Keep making the same mistakes • self awareness means learning from mistakes. 🫙 6) Think they know everything • self aware people know they can be wrong and always want to learn

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