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Looking at the way the number of single people is getting increased everyday, I’m certain that it’s not that people are not being approached for their hands in marriage but we’ve raised the bar so high, irrespective of gender.
While one is looking for someone that’s beautiful, ambitious, submissive, practicing, caring, knowledgeable, intelligent, outspoken and reserved etc, the other is looking for someone that’s rich, tall, handsome, deen-oriented, kind, available, romantic, emotionally and physically available, smart, ambitious and hardworking and the list is endless.
All in just a single person, on things that are not even complementary, I think it’s time we all wake up to the reality of life, perhaps what my recommendation would be, is to draw up a table of negotiables and non-negotiables, in as much as all or almost all the non-negs are met, I believe that’s a sign towards something itself, then accompany it with prayer.
We’re not looking to get married to Angels, we should learn to lower the bar up to a reasonable level and be ready to make peace with whatever choice comes out of it. After all, everything has been predestined, ours is to just try and put in the right amount of efforts.
May Allah grant us all singles a righteous spouse.
Character over appearances. Peace over drama. Loyalty over attention. Looking for someone with good values and a sincere heart.
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Maybe I'm using it the wrong way 😭
How are you guys making the most of it? I'm giving it a fair chance before deciding whether to delete it :3
Any advice? 👀
Well decently to speak I'm out of the mind rn since i don't have the person to we can speak to which is making me more mind fKd
People who have been single for a while and are secure in their lives, careers, and with themselves aren’t choosing a partner out of desperation or because a clock is ticking.
It’s more about alignment and peace.
They’re looking for someone who genuinely adds value to their life in ways that matter to them, and those priorities can be different for everyone.
Because of this, a lot of people may come across as “not serious”, when that may not be the case at all. I genuinely believe a huge chunk of people here are looking for a partner. It’s just that the vibe doesn’t match.
Our tolerance for disruption has reduced drastically. The moment we feel someone may disturb our peace or not fit into the life we’ve built, the ghosting begins.
People don’t even feel the need to explain anymore, which is fine. And honestly, sometimes they themselves don’t know what’s missing. They just know something feels off.
Maybe we’ve become too picky.
Or maybe we’ve simply become more aware of what peace feels like and are reluctant to compromise it.
Just my personal analysis. I could be completely wrong. 😄