Indians

Me at 3:00 AM Thinking, "Ye Meri Aazmaish hai ya Kismat?"

Kamal | | dentist. (Middle East) 35-year-old dentist who loves AI and real estate. I am sincere, refined, and stability-oriented. Seeking a serious marriage partner to build a respectful, calm, and harmonious life together. Open to international marriage with a genuine and kind-hearted woman.

🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING GOES LIVE 🌠

Alright listen up because the submissions are IN and y’all really trusted me with your romantic futures 😭🍿

I’ve started matching people based ONLY on age ranges & pure Friday night chaos. Due to disproportionate sisters vs brothers ratio, some sisters might end up talking to sisters only & brothers with brothers, until we find someone in your age range by next Friday (yeah, we're gonna make it a weekly thing 🤠).

If I tag you with someone:
✨ TALK IN THE COMMENTS FIRST
✨ Don’t disappear instantly
✨ Don’t act mysterious after voluntarily signing up

However, before everyone starts planning nikkahs after 3 replies, a small reminder:

Not every interaction is meant to become a love story. Sometimes Allah swt places people in your path for a lesson, a laugh, a moment of comfort or simply to show you what you do/don’t want. What is written for you will never miss you even if it's between 2 mountains & what misses you was never meant for you even if it was in the palm of your hand or tagged with you in a Jamaa comment section 🙃

So keep it respectful. No fake personalities, no embarrassing people publicly, no dragging conversations, no getting emotionally attached after “hii” 🤦

Remember, our romantic rizq is written, our spouse is already written ✌️ Good character & akhlaq will ALWAYS matter more than smooth flirting & like my best friends assert - the right connection will bring peace & sukoon, not confusion & anxiety (read butterflies!).

If something good comes out of this, alhamdolillah.
If not, at least we know which lane to not visit now. Regardless, duaon ki darkhast, homies (because nothing in this world is for free. You gotta return this kindness with duas for me & mine ✨🌻) 💌

Toh bismillah karein? Let the matchmaking begin 👀🔥

@Bilal35502655 say salaam & talk to @nazrana99

@rjhuzy say salaam & talk to @Sayyed26

@Ehsaan_aashu say salaam & talk to @farheen_qazi

@khurram_110 say salaam & talk to @AymanQidwai

@mohammed_34 say salaam & talk to @Ayesha2303

@atir9810 say salaam & talk to @shehnaz9

@abubakarmohad say salaam & talk to @pathan333

@abeez say salaam & talk to @riaa4025998

@Syed864 say salaam & talk to @sahil21720

@AZ-CosmicElysian say salaam & talk to @Sheikhsahiba

@raedb10 say salaam & talk to @Rayan_Mohammed

@Taransari say salaam & talk to @meenazghate

Ibn Hibban reported: Abu Darda, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer.”

Source: Rawḍat al-‘Uqalā’ 56

🌠 FRIDAY NIGHT MATCHMAKING 🌠

Gentle ladies & gentlemen, drop YOUR username or YOUR FRIEND’S username in the comment section

Along with:
✨ Age
✨ Preferred age range

And I’ll make a separate post later tonight, where I'm gonna start matching people up because aap logon se nahi ho raha 😭🔥

BUT HERE’S THE RULE:
If I match you with someone, y’all HAVE to talk in the comments first. No ghosting. No hiding. Public chemistry only 💀

Now if y'all eventually take it to the DMs… okayyyy good for you. If it fizzles out in the comments, good for you because what’s written for you will never miss you even if it's between two mountains. Don’t force connections, don’t fake personalities, no hard feelings, no embarrassment. Just respectfully behave like mature adults. Not every conversation is meant to become a love story & that’s okay ✌️

If the age & age groups are not mentioned, I won't be able to match you 😏

Example:
@yourusername/@yourbestie - 33 - looking for 32-37

Alright then, Bismillah!!! Let the matchmaking chaos begin 🍿🍿🍿

(P.S. The ones I'm tagging below can't opt out of the challenge so y'all better drop you ages & age groups y'all are looking for 🤭💅)

"Life is not a test match, it's a T20
About hitting sixes on every ball
If you play dot ball, people will forget
So keep the vibe high,make score"* 🔥

Hey frnds I m new in this platform
Any want to talk wid me??

Say something for me.....

Hello everyone.......anyone here other than me hmmmmm.......I am waiting

Sometimes I genuinely feel confused by marriage expectations 😅

I asked a girl what she wants to do after marriage and she said she’ll quit her job and wants to do “nothing”. I thought maybe she means she wants a peaceful home life & to be a housewife, which is completely fine with me too.

But the moment I asked that for clarity… unmatched 😂

Like I’m not judging anyone for wanting comfort or not working. I just feel two people should at least have some vision, plans or responsibilities together instead of expecting life to magically run on its own 😄

We need to talk about how humiliating <CUSTOM_BOLD>and normalized</CUSTOM_BOLD> dekhna-dikhana process is for girls in India.

The mother of a girl my mother recently went to see asked her daughter to show my mother an insignificant burn mark on her foot which would have made no difference to our decision. But the fact that they were so like apologetic about that mark got me thinking, and I think that mentality stems from the same culture of putting a girl under unreasonable scrutiny.

The onus is on us men to school our family women who go to see the girl on what not to do. Our mothers come from a generation where this humiliation ritual was so normalized that they accepted it as a norm [and even necessity].

We don't have to continue this demeaning tradition. As a Muslim, the woman you're considering for nikah is a Muslima. That fact alone is enough for you to honor more than the usual.