The 30s

Hi

Interstellar

They plan and Allah plans..
And he is indeed,
The best planner!

I planned something, I will marry at this age, I will choose a slow homely life, have children by this age, have these many children.

Yet here I am living a totally different life because of the circumstances not because of choice.. still loving it because I know he selected this for me..

That’s how Allah decide the journey for you and you just play!

“Babumoshai, zindagi aur maut uparwale ke haath mein hai... hum sab toh rangmanch ki kathputliyan hain, jiski dor upar wale ke hath mein hai”

EVERY SOUL SHALL TASTE DEATH

I'm going to confess my feelings to someone this week, but I don't have high hopes at all. I just want to close this chapter so I can move on from this open-loop situationship. The thing is, I know he's attracted to me, appearance-wise at least. We have the same humor, we can talk for hours about random things. I feel he may enjoy my companionship. That's all.

But I know he may not like me enough to commit. He ticks so many boxes it annoys me. I mean, usually, guys like him that I've connected with previously have already ghosted and left me by this time. Why is he still sticking around? 😐

I always end up in this situation where a guy only enjoys my companionship, likes to hang out and parade me around, but not enough to commit to a serious relationship.

I'm going to be sad to end this kind connection once I let him know my feelings. But it's also not my first time needing to move on from this kind of connection. This time, I prepared for the rejection at least.

Do you think...

a strong marriage needs two people who think alike, or two people who respect each other's differences?

This is for the men in their 30s.. are you really independent? Financially yes.. but free to make your own decisions? Please ask yourself that question before tagging a girl along in a relationship..
Better more take prior permission from your parents for having the Independence to make your own decisions in life (especially wrt marriage) after joining this app. What I've observed is

1. Men assume that they are independent, their parents want them to get married so they can make their own choices (lol think again) 😏
2. Parents tell them they are free to choose but when their kid brings up a girl's profile they start objections
3. Men can't take a stand for who/what they want in life and adopt the escapist life..
   So ask yourself this Isn't being an adult about making your own choices in life? Sure you can consult but in the end isnt the decision supposed to be YOURS? you have to spend your life with her, she will be your partner now till death do you apart, the mother of your kids.. thats for YOU not for your mom or your dad or your siblings..
   This is such a scary growing pattern of manchilds ..😐

Dear 30+ Unmarried Women, Let’s Connect & Support Each Other 🤍

If you are a woman in your 30s or above and unmarried, you may know how lonely it can sometimes feel when your closest friends and cousins get married. Their lives and priorities naturally change and their conversations often revolve around husbands, in-laws and children. You may love them, but sometimes you simply cannot relate to their lives anymore..

At the same time, Unmarried Women have their own struggles that married friends may not fully understand. Sometimes you don't need advice, you simply need someone who listens, understands and makes you feel less alone.

Being Unmarried after 30 does not make you a failure or a sinner. It simply means your life has taken a different path 🤍

So, if you are a 30+ Unmarried Woman anywhere in Pakistan and you are looking for genuine female pure friendship, please connect in the comments. 🌸

Let's talk, share and support each other emotionally, Protect each other's Mental Peace and remind one another that life is still worth living and enjoying..

And to everyone else: please be kind. Don't judge, mock or hurt someone just because you don't know their story. You never know what someone is silently going through..

Let's build a safe, kind and judgment-free Circle of Women who understand and support each other..

Good friends are truly a blessing. May Allah bless us all with happiness, peace and beautiful companionship... 🤲🏻🤍

Only Girls, you can message me..

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You Assume Words attract.... I assume Thoughts and Ideas.... 🍓😈✌😎

You Assume Actions attract.... I assume Sacrifice 😈🍓😉💀✌😎

You Assume Loyalty, Love, Intimacy and Trust attracts...... I Assume Respect Responsibility Protection and Understanding 😈😉🍓✌💀😈