The 30s

What small habit do you want to build this month? 🌱

Nothing dramatic. Nothing that needs a complete life reset.

Maybe:
• sleep earlier
• read 5–10 pages a day
• walk more
• drink enough water
• exercise consistently
• reduce scrolling
• pray on time
• journal for 5 minutes
• save a little money
• call your parents more often

Sometimes becoming a better version of yourself starts with something almost too small to notice.

What’s one habit you want to be consistent with this month?

#BetterInMy30s
#OneHabitAtATime

I'm not saying I wanna marry a non Muslim, in no way am I gonna disgrace my principles
......There are really good Muslim men out there too but I wanna see how Christian and atheist men are like..their ideologies. Because my society and jamaa disappoints me..women are belittled, told to not have a preference. That only men need to have a preference. Alhamdulillah , at least Islam gave me the preference to choose my partner. I'm tired of Muslim society women asking women not to dream of having a good man close to their age or at the most 10 yrs gap as not acceptable
...and over here, some Muslim men who do that...no wonder some guy told me that some Muslim women are sinning deeply by marrying non Muslim men....

Now idk what and where to start dawah for my atheist friend when all the examples I gave her r about some Muslim men with backward thinking.

Being in your 30s is realizing that your mind still feels like you’re 20, but your body clearly missed the memo. One wrong move and suddenly your back and knees are filing a formal complaint. 😂
And as a single mom, I’ve learned to handle life, responsibilities, and everything in between on my own. So I’m not looking for someone to save me,I’m looking for someone who brings peace, laughter, consistency, and genuine intentions. No drama, no mixed signals, no emotional back pain. I already have enough physical pain to deal with. 😂😂😂

I learned the hard way so I move the smart way 😎

If your spouse is a good person but never makes you feel emotionally understood, would you still call it a good marriage?

I want to make friends

Dating is scary.
Being single is boring.
Talking stage is draining.

After you’r 30’s

Not finding a parking is a good enough reason to go back home 😁

On this app, no one seems committed to taking the proper steps to get to know someone who might be a good match. Instead, people spend days talking without discussing anything serious, which I consider a waste of time.

I believe that once you match with someone, you should have a call and talk openly about the most important things you’re looking for in a partner, to make sure you both agree on the basics. Then, you shouldn’t spend more than 2–3 weeks getting to know each other through your everyday interactions, without ghosting or making false excuses.

Once you agree on the basics, you should move forward with involving the families and getting engaged. You can’t truly know someone separately from their family and community, as these circles have a huge impact on shaping and reflecting who a person really is.

Any one here?