Psychology & Neurodiversity

I think I accidentally found my mood-boosting formula... 😄

🍫 Dark chocolate
☕ Brazilian coffee
🎧 Spotify

That's all it takes to make my day a whole lot better.

What's your mood-boosting trio? 👇

Now, I am stable to support my 3 kids
if I get married later,will they be ok?

(kebanyakan langsung auto_unmatch)

Good morning ! 😀
Let's talk initial attraction.
The brain evaluates facial features, symmetry, and physical markers within milliseconds.
On the Muzz app what makes you hit "like" or match with someone ?
What's the one thing that catches your attention on first glance ?

Which one are you?
1. Talk to 4–5 people, then choose the one you're most compatible with.
2. Talk to one person and build compatibility, chemistry, and understanding together.

New experiences ✨️

It is normal to experience mixed emotions in every new chapter in life.

_ Excited _ For a lot of us feeling excited for what's coming ahead and looking forward in the future with this new beginning it's a positive feeling.

However, _ Fear _ this opposite feeling of excitement is inevitable where we may even experience emotional paralysis to take the first step of this new chapter of our life.

Alhamdulillah the good news is a lot of us this last emotion_ Hope_ may take control at the end allowing us to move forward with the necessary first steps and calculated actions expecting a positive outcome from the duration of this new chapter of our lives.

We may experience these 3 emotions excitement, fear, and hope chronologically in that order or they may overlap and take turns in any new experience and the start of a new phase of our life.

It also helps knowing that if we don't take any action for any thing we want in life , the result and the outcome will always be zero. Plus we may not live a fully fulfilled life without taking measured risks and some healthy life adventures.

I find practising _Tawakkul _ helps me to manage these conflicting emotions where combining " tie your camel " ( doing our best ) and having full trust in Allah SWT. My Lord grant us Tawakkul in all that we do ameen.

May Allah SWT forgive us and our loved ones, grant us guidance, goodness of this world and Jannah ameen.

💙 الحمدلله
Astaghfiru'Allah 🤍

23/07/26 Thu SD 08:29

# Mixed emotions
# Tawakkul
# New chapter / experience
# Jannah
# Dua
# One Ummah ☪️

Simple philosophy

What I have, I protect.
What I lose , I forget.
I laugh with many, but trust in few.

Never measure your worth by someone else's recognition.

Don’t get lost in your pain, know that one day your pain will become your cure.
― Rumi

(COULD YOU FIND A WAY TO LET ME DOWN SLOWLY, A LITTLE SYMPATHY I HOPE YOU CAN SHOW ME) 😅😗🙂 Hey y'all! I know it ain't Valentine's Day 💘 but today we talking about LOVE 😜💕. Topic of discussion, well it's more of a question actually, SHOULD LOVE BE UNCONDITIONAL!? OR conditioner 🤣 jk CONDITIONAL 😌🤔🫣. Let's get to personal story time aka me trauma dumping 😂😎

So yesterday my BELOVED father was upset that my siblings went out to watch movies very late at night. Remember how I told you, he possibly has ADHD!? Well he was having a self monologue moment and I heard him say," I have two daughters none of them offer me tea ☕ or breakfast 🍳🥞..I ask them if they ate something instead 🙂 what a world we live in" So today since I was home due to 🤙🏼 calling out from work(PRAY FOR ME Y'ALL !! IF I GET FIRED I'M COOKED 🍚😭) As soon as he came home I offered him tea and made him breakfast as well 😤🤗🫡.
I felt bad hearing that from him yesterday, honestly it's not that I don't want to do such things, (NOT TO MAKE EXCUSES OR ANYTHING 😭 BUT HEAR ME OUT) most of the time I'm emotionally unavailable to be there, to COEXIST with my family members. But anyways. He was happy and very much satisfied with me afterwards 🙂‍↕️☺️🤭. That made me wonder,

Is his love CONDITIONAL? 💘 It feels like it, maybe I'm taking it the wrong way honestly I usually MISUNDERSTAND my parents for good and bad reasons. Moral of the story, I think when you love someone it should be unconditional, you don't love them because they do something for you, they give something to you, they care about you, how they interact with you (If that makes sense) IMMA BE BIPOLAR NOW OKIE? 🤣😤😭

CONDITIONAL Love also doesn't seem like a bad thing, it's the safest way to protect your peace, protect your heart ❤️ make sure you're not being used for another person's benefits. So what do you think? Overall I think it really really really depends on the vibe, cuz anything could go sideways 😌💕🤣. Choose wisely 🦉 TOODLES