Psychology & Neurodiversity

What if your partner becomes jealous of you? just curious 🤔🤔☺️

Why have 100,000 people been signed off work with ADHD in the UK?
DISCUSS !
New government statistics find four million people claimed disability benefits in April.

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2026/7/8/why-have-100000-people-been-signed-off-work-with-adhd-in-the-uk

Live like there’s no tomorrow
Repent from those sins you got comfortable with
Forgive and wipe clean from your heart
Love like u have never loved
Be grateful for the breath in your lungs, the beat in your heart, the thousands of thoughts per day, the light of the sun.
Pray like it’s your last.
Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
Coz one day today will be your last day, and tomorrow will not come.
And if u live like it was your last, you would have lived a full grateful day.
PS Dont major in the minors

Sometimes, when you have been lonely for too long, attention starts feeling like love.

A quick reply feels like care.
A late-night conversation feels like intimacy.
Someone remembering a small detail feels like a connection.

And maybe it is.

But attention is easy to give when someone is bored, curious, or simply enjoying how you make them feel. Love is different. Love has consistency. It survives inconvenience. It exists even when there is nothing exciting happening.

The dangerous part is not that people confuse attention with love.

It is that loneliness makes us lower the amount of evidence we require before believing we are loved.

Learn the difference before you give someone a place in your heart they only wanted to visit.

The problem with modern dating is that everyone wants to be chosen, but very few people ask themselves whether they have become someone worth choosing.

People have long lists of expectations: emotional maturity, loyalty, ambition, good communication, patience. Fair enough.

But how often do we turn that list around?

Am I emotionally mature?
Do I communicate well?
Can I handle disagreement without turning it into a war?
Do I bring peace into someone’s life, or just another set of demands?

Standards are important. But standards without self-examination are just entitlement.

Before asking, “Why can’t I find the right person?” maybe ask a harder question:

“If I met someone exactly like me, would I choose them?”

Am I the only one who feels a sense of unease whenever I log into the app?

I pray to Allah Almighty that you all succeed in life. May Allah bless you and grant you success in everything you do.

The men loosing their heads when I said I’m single by choice and I don’t need a man is just a crack up -🤣🤣🤣

Some say I’m selfish for not getting married (I died…hahah) ☠️☠️

Another said I’m a Hadith rejector
Another said I’m quoting the Bible.
Another saying I’m rejecting the Quran
I’m cursed apparently according to another 🤪
One called me ugly (although I don’t have a photo of myself)
And when I said I’m celibate frm birth, one said - “celibacy is not from Islam.” lolol 🤣🤣🤣

I just can’t!!
Imagine making a comedy, gathering all these men together.

Farrr out!! It will be a hit show !

Like how dare can a women not marry. Hahahaha

I wonder, have marriage been programmed into their culture to the extent that their identity is practically built upon the believe a Muslim HAVE to be married otherwise they are not a Muslim or they can’t get into heaven? I don’t know what the story is behind such mindset.

I find it quite sad to be honest.

The levels of fitna lately are reaching unbearable hights.
I refuse to participate.
Time to shut it down.

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Bismillah

True growth isn’t about gaining more of this world—it’s about learning what truly lasts. When your heart sets its gaze on the eternal Akhirah, the noise of temporary Duniya fades away. That is the moment you find peace, purpose, and the clearest path home. ✨