Psychology & Neurodiversity

Due to my dating history, I think I’m going to fall in love with my bills so they can leave me alone😫😫

( I WISH I COULD ESCAPE IT, I DON'T WANNA FAKE IT, WISH I COULD ERASE IT, MAKE YOUR HEART BELIEVE, BUT IMMA BAD LIAR 😝😭🙏🏼) Hey y'all, today I woke up with BIPOLAR attitude 😜 so imma contradict whatever I said in my last post🙈.( CHECK OUT my LAST POST AS A REFERENCE, DO.. LEAVE A LIKE 😂😉) Today's topic is imperfection. Why all of sudden? Iykyk it's personal story time 😆😌🙂‍↕️.

Jokes aside my last post was about how I'm getting better at handling my SAD GIRL VIBES 🥹🥺😳. Well I failed fairly yesterday. I had let's say about 20 or so things to do on my TO DO LIST 🤓🥸( EXAGGERATED NUMBER BTW, I TRIED TO COUNT BUT I FAILED MATH CLASS IN COLLEGE SO IT'S JUST NOT HAPPENING 😂 I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE YOU exact numbers but It failed me 😭🙏🏼🫶🏼) so out of hypothetical 20 I did get 2/4 of that completed. Why not 100%? WHY THE LAG YOU ASK!? 🙂

I was in my feelings 😌🤧😮‍💨. So I took two power naps. What happened? What's wrong?! (DUN WORRY ABOUT IT SWEETIE 🥰) I'M GANGSTA 😏
I bounced back mostly is what I'm trying to say. If it was past REVELATION naima, she would have bed rotted all day and skipped doing everything. But like I have mentioned to y'all before, I'M TRYNA BE BETTER 😄☺️. So moral of the story....

It's okay to let things consume you SOMETIMES 🙈 As long as YOU GET BACK UP AGAIN, you'll be more than FINE Alhumdulliah 🥳. We are humans after all, emotions are what something that drives us (MORE THAN WE WOULD LIKE TO ADMIT 🙂‍↔️) Anyways toodles ~

Some people see a woman living alone and assume she's lonely. What if she's actually the happiest she's ever been? Peace often looks unfamiliar to people who've confused chaos with love.

There's something powerful about waking up in a home where every decision is your own.
You choose the music, the meals, the bedtime, the décor, and the direction of your life. No walking on eggshells. No shrinking yourself to keep someone else comfortable.

Psychologically, solitude can be one of the greatest teachers. When you're comfortable in your own company, you stop chasing relationships just to avoid being alone. You learn that your happiness isn't something another person has to provide.

Of course, independence isn't the opposite of love.
Many women dream of healthy, lasting partnerships, and there's nothing wrong with that.
The difference is wanting a relationship, not needing one to feel complete.

A woman who enjoys her own company dates differently. She doesn't settle because she's afraid of an empty apartment or a quiet Friday night.
She chooses people who add to her peace because she already knows how to create it herself.

Maybe that's the real luxury.
Not a bigger house, a designer handbag, or a picture-perfect relationship but the freedom to build a life that already feels full before anyone else walks into it. Because when your own company feels like home, you'll never mistake loneliness for love again.

The real challenge is that we grow. Partner choice is a self-development journey, driving us to learn more about ourselves, about other people, about life and the way we want to live it.
-Susan Quilliam-

To want something means your in the lack of it
And to focus on that
Will not get u the thing u want
U must be in gratitude with the things u do have.
Make dua for that thing u are “wanting”
The key is to now focus on Allah
And have certainty that it will be yours (it’s on the way)
ALSO have certainty that Allah will only give you what’s best for you for this and next life.
He loves us that much
So beautiful
We are in soooo much abundance
This is a winners mindset
PS if a dua isn’t manifesting for u, don’t be upset, don’t think badly of Allah.
If it’s yours nothing can stop it, if it’s not it won’t come.
Leave everything to a Allah,
These earthly faculties are not equipped to comprehend the divine plan as it unfolds.

Hello 👋

I’m talking to YOU. You will not drown in debt.

If you have the superpower what it could be and why???

Bismillah
Agree to disagree 😊

When a woman truly loves a man, she does not easily look at anyone else. Her heart is completely focused on building a beautiful, safe life together. If her deep feelings start to fade, it is almost never because a new man caught her attention.

True love dies a very slow and painful death when a woman is constantly starved of basic attention, honesty, and care by the man she trusted the most.

Every single time a man breaks a small promise, forgets to show up, or ignores her feelings, he pushes her a little bit further away. A strong woman can only endure so much neglect before she starts to feel completely invisible in her own relationship. When a man stops putting in the daily effort to make her feel special and safe, he is silently telling her that her warm heart is no longer important to him.

By the time she finally decides to pack up her love and walk out the door, she is not leaving to find someone new. She is leaving to find her own quiet peace and to remember her own high value. A man who loses a good woman this way has absolutely nobody to blame but himself. He did not lose her to another person; he simply handed her away through his own lazy actions and constant disrespect.