Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
HEY EVERYONE 👋
«Hi» is the cheapest way to start a conversation a reflection of your awareness and your ability to formulate a goal… just noise🌎
If you write just «hi» it means you don’t value your time or my time
If you don’t value your own time, then you don’t value yourself
And if you don’t value yourself, then why should I value you?
(It sounds harsh, but I don’t know how else to explain my point of view)
“Hi” is like a mass market of ideas a moss market
Assalamualaikum
Tell me what the characteristics of a serious and responsible man are. How long before we can psychologically see if he's truly good? Are there any specific signs?
The data behind modern dating is darker than you think.
Let's talk numbers. Real ones.
78% of dating app users feel emotionally exhausted by online dating. Not sometimes. Regularly. (Forbes Health, 2024 : 1,000 users surveyed)
84% of Gen Z and Millennial daters have been ghosted. And two thirds of them have ghosted someone else. We are both the victim and the perpetrator of the same cycle. (2025 research data)
79% of Gen Z and 80% of Millennials report dating app burnout. In the UK alone, 1.4 million people left dating apps between 2023 and 2024.
And here's the most painful finding
People who used dating apps seeking social approval felt lonelier over time. But people who used them genuinely pursuing relationships did not. (Sage Journals)
Same app. Completely different psychological outcome based entirely on why you're there.
Research now consistently links dating app use to lower self-esteem, body dissatisfaction, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion not because rejection is new, but because the architecture of these apps may amplify pre-existing insecurities in ways traditional dating never did. (Psychology Today)
And the cruelest part? The permanent visibility of alternatives weakens emotional investment users disengage from potentially meaningful conversations simply because another profile appears momentarily more appealing. (Psychology Today)
We built technology to find connection.
And somehow made loneliness more efficient.
The question isn't whether the app works.
The question is do you know why you're actually here?
Men over 30 and early 40s stop looking for 90s love. It's 2026.
Social media turned basic attention into celebrity-level ego.
You can still find real loyalty, but you'll have to filter harder, watch actions over words, and accept that the game changed whether you like it or not.
Can you break yourself for someone who cannot even bend for you?
Lonliness teachs a person that the word has no interest in his sufferings
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Ladies.. how much mahr ( if it's in fine gold ) do you deserve from a man who wants to marry you?