Ramadan

🏆 The "Most Fragile Ego" & "Most Insecure Men" Award goes to some men on Jamaa 🫵🏻

Some men on Jamaa really treat every woman's preference like it's a personal attack on their existence....🤭
No personality, no confidence, just endless crying in the comments because someone described a man they couldn't relate to....🤷🏻‍♀️

A woman shares her standards or preferences, and instead of simply scrolling, they write essays, throw insults, and do everything they can to prove her wrong 💀.

A confident man doesn't get offended by a post that was never about him. The ones shouting the loudest usually aren't exposing the woman they're exposing their own insecurities.....😂

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜𝘀 𝗛𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀?

One day, a friend and I were driving down Shahrah e Faisal.

The car was moving fast. A soft song was playing in the background. But strangely... neither of us was saying a word.

It wasn't an awkward silence. It was one of those silences where both people are simply lost in their own thoughts.

To break it, I asked him a completely random question.

"Bro... what is happiness?"

"I mean... what does happiness actually feel like?"

He didn't answer.

He just kept driving.

For a moment, I thought he hadn't heard me.

But then I looked at him.

His silence told me he was actually thinking.

And that's when it hit me...

Maybe I had asked a much bigger question than I realized.

So I started searching for the answer in my own head as well.

A few moments later, he quietly changed from the first lane to the second... then to the third.

I noticed a petrol station ahead.

Without saying a word, I knew exactly what was happening.

He needed fuel.

The car rolled into the station and stopped beside the pump.

He rolled down the window and said,

"Full tank."

Then he stepped out of the car and told me to come out too.

One guy started cleaning the windshield while we stood next to the fuel pump.

His face still carried that same thoughtful expression.

Then...

He finally broke the silence.

"Sameer... do you know what happiness is?"

I didn't say anything.

I just nodded.

Still completely serious...

He reached into his pocket...

Took out a packet of naswar...

Prepared it in his usual dramatic style...

Placed it under his lip...

Then looked straight at me and said,

"This... this is happiness."

"Imagine you're craving nicotine... you're standing at a petrol pump, surrounded by fuel... and you can still satisfy your addiction."

"Cigarette smokers can only dream of this privilege."

"If they tried to light one here... everyone at the station would have the legal, moral, and probably emotional right to slap them twice for risking everybody's lives."

"But naswar?"

"You can use it on a plane."

"During military training."

"Even at a ceremony in GHQ... standing right in front of the Army Chief."

I completely lost it.

I burst out laughing.

Pointed at him and gave him that classic "You're an absolute idiot" look.

Then, while I was still laughing...

He became serious again.

"Do you know when real peace... real happiness... actually comes?"

I smiled and nodded.

By now, I was convinced another joke was coming.

Instead...

He said something I still think about.

"When you have given any relationship everything you have got."

"When you have genuinely given your 110%."

"But the other person still fails to recognize your worth... still takes you for granted."

"Yet deep inside, you know you were honest."

"You know you didn't hold back."

"You know your conscience is clear."

"That feeling..."

"It's painful."

"But strangely... it also brings an endless kind of peace."

"Because there's no guilt left."

"And somewhere in your heart, you know that if people couldn't value your sincerity..."

"God will."

"The peace that comes from leaving your matter with God..."

"That's what I call real happiness."

I just stood there...

Looking at him.

Thinking.

Trying to process what he had just said.

Just then, the fuel attendant interrupted.

"Sir, the tank is full."

We got back into the car...

And continued toward our destination.

The rest of the drive...

I kept replaying his words in my head.

Trying to understand them.

Trying to feel them.

Trying to live them.

And honestly...

I am still trying to understand

Ky ye is na kia chawal mari ha🤔

THIS GUY NAILED IT 👏

A lot of people think "effort" means spending hundreds of dollars 💸. It doesn't ❤️.

She casually mentioned her favorite color was orange 🧡. He remembered 💭. The next day, he built an entire gift around that one little detail 🎁 orange roses 🌹, orange snacks 🍿, orange candles 🕯️, orange soda 🥤, even the gift bag 🛍️.

It wasn't about the money 💰. It was about paying attention 👀.

Real effort is listening, remembering the little things, and making someone feel seen 🥰.

Because at the end of the day, people don't always remember how much you spent they remember how you made them feel ☺️

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A man with purpose
has fewer temptations.

JuLy This Year

Imagine if you become CEO of Muzz for a day what will you do, what actions would you take???

Should spouses have access to each other's phones and passwords?

What do you think guys??? Kindly explain your perspective as well thanks

Allah knows every silent prayer you have made, every tear you have hidden, and every battle you have been fighting without anyone else knowing. If He has placed something in your heart, trust that He is fully aware of it. Keep making du’a, keep striving, and keep relying on Him. What is written for you will never miss you, and what misses you was never meant for you. Keep your trust in Allah, even when you cannot yet see the outcome.

Dear Universe,
Help me trust the process, even when I can’t see the outcome.

When someone shows interest in me... 🧐

But they don't know my heart has already made its choice....💘

He's not just someone I like he's my first and last love, my answered prayer, my entire world and the one I want to spend my life with.....❤️

My heart isn't available for anyone else.
My loyalty has a name, and it belongs to him alone....❤️‍🔥

Ya Allah, make him mine soon, bless us with a beautiful marriage and keep our hearts united forever....👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻
Ameen....🤲