Beauty, Health and Wellbeing

Assalamualaikum.

Allah is my witness, I am not lying. I joined Muzz with a sincere heart and a very simple dream: to find one loyal woman who would understand me, respect me, and accept me for who I am, so I could marry her according to the Sunnah of my beloved Prophet ﷺ. I wasn't here to play games, collect contacts, or talk to dozens of women. I was honestly hoping that maybe Allah would introduce me to someone who would become my life partner.

But unfortunately, my experience here has been extremely painful. 💔

I came here looking for loyalty, but I found myself questioning people's intentions again and again. Someone can talk to you beautifully, tell you they are serious, make you feel that maybe you have finally found the person you've been waiting for—and then suddenly they disappear because they think there might be someone better.

You give someone your trust, and they give you a reason to stop trusting people.

The saddest part isn't even when someone leaves. The saddest part is realizing that while you were talking to them with a sincere heart, they may have been talking to several other people at the same time, quietly comparing you with everyone else and waiting for a “better option.”

I honestly regret making a Muzz account. I wish I had never joined. I came here with hope, but instead I ended up carrying disappointment and sadness. I never thought that searching for marriage could make a person feel so emotionally tired.

So please, I sincerely request everyone here: protect your heart. Don't give your trust too quickly. If you talk to someone for one or two days, don't immediately believe that they are loyal or serious about you. Beautiful words are easy to say. Real loyalty takes time, consistency, and sacrifice.

And please remember that behind every profile is a real person. A real heart. Real feelings. Real pain.

You don't know how much someone has already suffered before meeting you. You don't know how difficult it may have been for them to trust another person again. So please don't give someone hope, make them emotionally attached to you, and then leave them simply because another person appeared who seemed “better.”

If you truly want a peaceful marriage, look for someone who genuinely fears Allah. Someone with taqwa will understand that another person's heart is not something to play with. They will respect you, your feelings, your parents, and your family.

I am not saying everyone here is bad. There are surely sincere people here too. But my experience has hurt me deeply, and I don't want anyone else to go through the same pain.

I wasn't looking for many women. I was looking for one.
I wasn't looking for perfection. I was looking for sincerity.
I wasn't looking for endless choices. I was looking for commitment.
I wasn't looking for someone who would stay until something better appeared.
I was looking for someone who would say, “I choose you,” and mean it.

Maybe that is why this experience hurts me so much.

But I believe Allah sees everything that people hide. He knows who came with a sincere heart and who came only to play with someone else's emotions.

So I leave it all to Allah.

May Allah heal every heart that has been broken by someone who wasn't sincere. May He protect us from people who make promises they don't mean. And may He bless every lonely and sincere person with a spouse who will never make them feel unwanted, replaceable, or like they were simply another option.

And may Allah give us someone who chooses us with sincerity, stays with us through difficult times, respects our families, and loves us for His sake.

Ameen Ya Rabb. 🤲💔

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