Muslims in America
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🇺🇸🕌 A group for Muslims in the United States, where we celebrate our faith and cultural diversity.
@abdullahindy
Anyone Pakistani in US I’m so tired of looking.
@Snbokhari
It’s better to burnout than to fade away.
@Maya14106053
Ok let me be honest as strange as this may sound here but I get super turned off by marrying a doctor or ceo or any man who is in high rank/demand. First maybe because I hate competition; I am very feminine and enjoy loving the soft life. I don’t ever like to feel pressured or compete for his approval. Second I do not trust them at all because I already know a man’s nature! I heard you can test a man’s loyalty when he has everything and a woman’s loyalty when her husband doesn’t have anything. I truly hope I am not selling myself short of finding a high quality husband but to be honest there’s a lot of cons. He will most likely put his career first at all cost, he will not spend quality time with family, his career will always come first and for me as a nurturing woman I need my spouse to be available emotionally, physically, and mentally. Most of these men are the opposite; they’re goal oriented, competitive, emotionally very cold, unavailable most of their time is spent at work. These men rarely have time for themselves their own kids feel neglected and alone most of the time. The father sees himself as the breadwinner and he most likely believes that’s it, everyone should be happy? But in reality it’s not enough.
Also Muslim/ Arab men doctors or high status men are super arrogant about it ?! They want you to worship them NO brother go back to your mama! I need kindness, love, affection, and mercy, character, humbleness, humility, and so much more from a man. Nothing is attractive to me about an absent husband. Most of these high earner men will neglect you so much and leave you alone for months. If you don’t mind a lonely cold marriage than yes go ahead also everything will be about him first. His schedule, his meals, his lifestyle, everything will most likely run based on his command. These type of men put their careers before their own families and friends and everything is last even their kids most of these men will not have anytime with their own kids. I can’t stand that at all. For me I need genuine support, love, and shared time together as a family. I want to enjoy time with my husband and feel his love and affection. If he is always busy and I end up feeling lonely and neglected I will file for divorce in the end. It’s not worth it. But some women marry for the title to brag about their husband status to others while they’re crying every night alone in the golden castle. 🏰
@Maya14106053
This may sound funny to most of you reading this but everytime someone unmatches me my first instant reaction is alhamdulilah! I guess that’s what maturity truly means! Nothing can ever shake your confidence as a mature man/woman anymore you had plenty of experiences in life good and bad that you understand if it’s not meant for you it’s a blessing and if it was truly meant for you it will work like bread and butter. I truly pray everyone reaches that level of maturity and inner peace mashaAllah.
On another note 📝 I find people who unmatch quickly as very repulsive let me explain why:
1st in my opinion they’re either very arrogant and think they don’t need to put effort and want you to do all the chasing, planning, etc
2nd they are very impatient immature adults who may think there’s plenty of fish to swipe and don’t even try to take their time to get to know someone on a deeper level without being so impatient.
One thing I learned relationships take time and a lot of effort if men and women can’t even sustain long term conversations and build a friendship first before deciding to unmatch they’re not my cup of tea ☕️
I hope my answer helps most of you who I see posting online about how disappointed they feel everytime someone unmatches them or ghosts them without any explanations. You have the right to question their behavior but furthermore you should question the Muzmatch app itself. Is this app truly helping me find what I want and signed up for? If your conclusion is no, there’s your answer. Second how can I better my search to find what I want?
I found the people who truly connected and were able to truly find deeper connections is the men and women who took it offline and met in person. This app gives the false illusion that there’s POF but in reality this app should only be for us to use as a phone book to find people who are nearby or willing to meet in person and quickly take it offline and meet in person to see if we are compatible in REAL LIFE. I find it amusing how people say they’ve been on this app for 2-5 years and haven’t met the ONE 😂 well the issue is most of you get burnt with too many options and not enough real life experiences.
@Ehsan75704133
Your success story on muzz?
@WulanRaranthi
Excuse me, does anyone want to meet me?
How do yall make friends after undergrad? No one goes to the masjid it's all uncles
@PeaceNblessings
Some weirdo made a post saying men shouldnt have any hobbies because it's feminine...WTH smh SIMPLE AZZ gonna be single forever
a question for the men‼️
when you see a profile of a woman who's profession is something in healthcare such as a doctor, PA, pharmacist, dentist etc....what goes on your mind? would you swipe right on her? does the profession play a big factor for you?
when I was a student I felt like I received more matches but the moment I added my full profession as a working pharmacist I feel as if I don't receive many matches....