Protect your peace. Not everyone deserves access to your heart, your plans, or your energy. Learn to be kind without being available to everyone, and quiet without explaining yourself.

Maturity is knowing what deserves your attention—and what doesn’t. 💯

BE INSPIRED ALWAYS 🔥🤝.

Be humble always 🙌🏻🤲🏻

“If she says ‘do whatever you want,’ congratulations, you’ve entered a dangerous zone.” 😂

Have a wonderful day ahead my people

Why would your bio just say “I’m just a soft girl”? 🤦🏽‍♂️ Nawa o 😂. At this point, I’m also just a soft boy. Everybody is soft these days. 😭😂

Another Muzz Experience 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

So, I met someone on Muzz today and, as usual, we started with the basic introductions. Nothing serious yet—just getting to know each other.

Then came the part where we talked about religion.

He told me he is not a Muslim. 😭

And honestly, my first thought was:

“Brother… then what exactly are you doing on Muzz?” 😂😂

Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to judge anyone for their religion. Everyone has the right to their beliefs and choices. But Muzz is primarily a platform for Muslims looking for marriage, so I genuinely wondered how a non-Muslim ended up there looking for a partner.

Maybe I'm missing something. 😂

But for me personally, religion is not something I can simply overlook when considering marriage. My faith is an important part of my life, so religious compatibility matters to me.

So, dear Muzz brothers and sisters, please help me understand:

How do non-Muslims end up on a Muslim dating app? 😂

Is it curiosity?
Are they genuinely interested in marrying a Muslim?
Or did they just download the wrong app? 😭😂

No disrespect intended—I'm genuinely curious about people's experiences.

My Muzz Experience 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

Let me share a little experience from my journey on Muzz.

I met a guy who is 40 years old, never married, and has no children, while I am 38 years old, a widow, and a mother of three.

After we introduced ourselves and started talking, I told him honestly that, although the age difference was absolutely fine with me, his being a single man with no children was something I had to seriously consider.

Why?

Because, as things stand right now, I am not ready to have another child anytime soon. And realistically, if a man who has never been married and has no children gets married, there is a very high possibility that having his own child will naturally be one of his priorities.

And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! ❤️

But I also have to be honest about what I want and what I am currently ready for. I already have three children, and at this stage of my life, I am not looking to have another baby anytime soon.

Unfortunately, he took offence and felt I was only saying all these things because I didn't like him and was trying to scare him away. 😭

My dear, if you ever come across this message, please understand something:

I cannot lie to you just because I want you to stay. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

If I already know that something could become a major issue in the future, I would rather tell you from the beginning than pretend everything is fine, get married, and then we start having serious disagreements about children.

It's not about you being 40.
It's not about you being single.
It's not even about you being childless.

It's about what you want for your future and what I am currently prepared for.

You may be a wonderful man, and I may be a wonderful woman, but that doesn't automatically mean we are compatible.

I would rather lose someone because I was honest than keep someone by telling them what they want to hear. ❤️

Sometimes, honesty at the beginning saves two people from heartbreak at the end. 🤍

Assalamu Alaikum everyone 🌸

Just dropping a little Salaam to everyone here. 😊 May Allah guide us all to the right people, protect our hearts from unnecessary heartbreak, and make our search for a righteous and compatible partner easy.

May we meet people who are sincere, respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely ready for something meaningful. 🤍

And to everyone still searching—may Allah make the waiting worth it. Ameen. 🤲🏽

Good morning, Muzz people! 😄☀️

May your chats be interesting, your intentions be sincere, and may nobody reply with just "hi" after you send a whole paragraph 😂🤲