Married couples who met on Muzz

Assalamualaikum...

Today my mother asked me, “Son, do you want to get married?” I told her, “Yes, I want to get married.” She said, “Beta, I am sick, and you are also getting older now. You can marry whoever you want, wherever you want.”

I said, “Okay, InshaAllah, I will get married according to the Sunnah of my beloved Prophet ﷺ, following the way he taught us to marry. InshaAllah, I will get married within this year.”

So tell me, who is going to marry me? 😂 Raise your hand and introduce yourself. 😒😂

Honestly, I want to get married within a month. But please don’t judge me just by my looks. InshaAllah, I will take very good care of you. I am a person who fears Allah and believes in Him.

If you are wondering what kind of person I am, well, that is all a matter of destiny. I also don’t know what kind of wife Allah has written for me in my life. But I believe that whoever puts their trust in Allah, InshaAllah, Allah will make things good for them.

May Allah make everything good for both of us. Ameen. ❤️

Honestly, I’m getting really tired of all these repetitive and unnecessary questions on this app.

Everything about me is already clearly written in my profile and my status. My age, my situation, what I’m looking for, my intentions, my expectations—it’s all there.

Yet people still keep asking the exact same questions that they could simply find the answers to by actually reading my profile. 😩

“Are you single?”
“Were you married before?”
“What are you looking for?”
“Where do you live?”
“What do you want in a husband?”

Please… READ MY PROFILE FIRST. 🙏🏻

I’m honestly starting to wonder why I even bother writing a profile if nobody is going to read it.

Getting to know someone should be about asking meaningful questions that help two people understand each other—not repeatedly asking for information that has already been provided.

At this point, I’m seriously considering deleting Muzz. 😩

It’s not the idea of meeting someone that is tiring.

It’s the endless nonsense questions from people who clearly haven’t even taken the time to read who I am.

Please, gentlemen… read before you ask. It really isn’t that difficult. 🙃

Pleaseeee… can we stop asking the same question over and over again?

“Are you married?”
“Are you single?”

Honestly… I’m getting tired of this question. 😂

Why would I be on a marriage app looking for a husband if I were already somebody else’s wife? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Do you really think I would be here searching for a husband while I already have one at home?

Or are some of you thinking, “Maybe she is married but looking for husband number two, three or four”? 😂

Please, gentlemen… use a little common sense. 😅

I am on this app because I am single and looking for marriage. Isn’t that already quite obvious?

There are so many meaningful things you can ask when getting to know someone—her values, personality, family, expectations, lifestyle, future plans and what she is genuinely looking for in a partner.

So please… let’s move beyond:
“Are you married or single?” 😂

Think a little. Ask something meaningful. We’re all here for the same reason—to find someone for marriage, not to conduct a census. 😆

I honestly wonder why so many men on this app don’t have stable jobs or a stable source of income. Of course, I have come across a few who do, but honestly, they seem to be very few.

What I find even more strange is that when two people are getting to know each other, the man often expects the woman to be the one who travels to meet him. Sometimes it’s from one country to another, and sometimes even within the same country—but somehow, the expectation is still that the woman should make the journey.

Do they think travelling is free? 😏

I really don’t understand the logic behind it. A man says he wants to marry a woman. He says he has fallen in love with her. He says he is serious about her. And then… somehow, she is the one expected to buy the ticket, travel to his country, and go to meet him.

Why?

Why can’t the man make the effort and travel to meet the woman instead?

I find this extremely strange. Words like “I want to marry you” or “I’m in love with you” mean very little to me if there is no action behind them.

And I’m sorry to say this, but personally, a man like that will never have a place in my heart—no matter how handsome he is, and no matter how good or impressive his job may be.

I believe that when a man is genuinely serious about a woman, he should show it through his actions, not simply expect the woman to do all the travelling and make all the effort.

Love is not just words. Serious intentions require effort, responsibility and action.

Two people can have chemistry, attraction, and love. What is the one thing that can still make you walk away?

I don’t want a love that needs constant reassurance. I want something so genuine that both hearts simply know.”

Good morning my age 19 single boy

Assalam Walekum,

I'm still new to Muzz and I wanted to get your input.

What are common mistakes you see that turns someone away on Muzz. Not obvious ones please like rudeness, inappropriate language, demanding pictures etc.

Would you rather marry someone who loves you deeply but doesn’t truly understand you, or someone who understands you deeply but takes longer to fall in love with you?

In marriage, is love enough, or do we need compatibility, communication, emotional maturity, shared values, and the ability to handle difficult seasons together?

Sometimes we choose people based on how strongly they make us feel, only to discover later that strong feelings don’t always mean a strong foundation.

So I want to ask the Muzz community:

What do you believe is more important for a lasting marriage: being deeply loved, deeply understood, or being genuinely compatible—and why?

I’d love to hear your honest perspective. 👇🏽