Fun and Games

👨: why is so many Indonesian in Japan? Especially in this apps?
👧: because we wanna rule the world. you’ll see us everywhere you go and in your dream too. but we’re not alone we’ve got china and India with us 😉🤣 better prepare yourself 🧟‍♀️

Grown men have been turned into babies.

This is going to upset some men.

But imagine where you would be if you had spent the last 2,000 hours building your real character instead of your virtual one.

That promotion you say you're underpaid without?

You could have spent those evenings developing the skills to get it.

That body you wish you had?

You could have built it.

Your wife saying she feels overwhelmed?

Maybe instead of another four-hour gaming session, you could clean the house, take something off her shoulders, sit beside her and actually be present with the woman Allah entrusted to you.

Don't have a wife yet?

Then what exactly are you preparing for?

Learn to provide. Train your body. Learn to cook. Build your career. Learn your deen. Study the Qur'an. Learn how to communicate with a woman. Spend time with your parents. Serve your community. Learn enough about Islam to give dawah beautifully.

There are Muslim men saying, “I don't have time” while their Steam account has enough hours to qualify as a second career.

Brother, you had time.

You spent it chasing pixels and dopamine.

And before somebody gets emotional: no, playing a game occasionally isn't the downfall of civilization. Rest and recreation have their place.

I'm talking about the grown man whose real life is underdeveloped because his virtual life isn't.

Personally, I want something different.

I want my future wife to look at the man beside her and see where my time went.

Into a career that provides for her.

Into a body strong enough to protect her.

Into knowledge that benefits our home.

Into deen that brings us closer to Allah.

Into becoming emotionally mature enough that when she's struggling, I don't escape into a screen. I sit beside her.

And when we have children one day, I don't want them remembering Dad as the back of a gaming chair.

I want them remembering that I was there.

A controller can give you another achievement.

I'd rather build a life where my wife looks at me with peace in her eyes, my children run toward me when I walk through the door, my parents are proud of the man I became, and Allah is pleased with what I did with my time.

That sounds like a much better game to win.

𝗜𝗻 𝗔 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗖𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝗘𝗴𝗼, 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗧𝗼 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗛𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 🌹.

Nowadays, arrogance seems to be becoming a trend. People who show attitude, ego, and emotional detachment are often seen as strong or successful, while those who hold on to empathy, kindness, and humanity are sometimes treated like losers. It’s sad how being a good human is increasingly mistaken for being weak 🤷🏻‍♀️.

True strength is not in making others feel small, acting cold, or hiding emotions. Real strength is having a kind heart, showing compassion, and staying respectful even when the world tells you otherwise ✌🏻.

𝗡𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗸. 𝗔 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 🥰.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗖𝗮𝗻’𝘁 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗵’𝘀 𝗕𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 🙅🏻‍♀️.

You mistreat people, lie, cheat, and then expect Allah to bless what you’re doing 🤦🏻‍♀️.

All you’re doing is piling up sins against yourself while oppressing others. Be very careful of the dua of the oppressed, because there is no barrier between it and Allah ☝🏻.

Remember, you are playing with people’s hearts, including the hearts of those who stand in the night and pray. Those prayers will be answered 🌙.

You may think their silence means they are weak. You may think their kindness means they will never speak up. But remember, the One they turn to hears every silent pain 😔.

So when you start losing things, when your life begins going wrong, and the blessings you once had start disappearing, remember the person you hurt, oppressed, and mistreated the person who had nothing but love and sincere intentions for you 💔.

You thought you were playing with their heart. You didn’t realize you were giving them a reason to raise their hands to Allah against you 🫵🏻.

Be careful. The tears you caused, the pain you inflicted, and the dua they made in the darkness of the night are not forgotten. Those prayers will be answered 🤲🏻.

𝗡𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸, 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗵 𝗦𝗲𝗲𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗡𝗼 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗘𝗹𝘀𝗲 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗦𝗲𝗲. 𝗧𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗣𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗞𝗶𝗻𝗱𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀, 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗮𝘆 𝗡𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝗲𝗿𝗰𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗥𝗲𝗳𝘂𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝗧𝗼 𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗲 🌸.

𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗔𝗹-𝗔𝗱𝗹 (𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁), 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼 ظلم 𝗴𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘂𝗻𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲𝗱 🌹.

An apple a day keeps the doctor away. Or at least it does if you throw it hard enough.👀😌🙃

My boss told me to have a good day. So I went home.😌🙃😌

I work from home and still managed to get fired for showing up late. My bed is just too far from the desk.😒😒😌

Let's play "Flag it!" 🚩

How to play:
Comment a specific habit, preference, or situation below (e.g., "Puts ketchup on maggie" or "Remembers how you take your chai").

The next person replies with either a red flag or a green flag!

I will start: When someone automatically takes care of something for me without being asked. That's a biggest green flag for me, wby?

I don't know what he is thinking..