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“My kind of love is simple: respect her, protect her peace, make her smile, and choose her every day.”

Finding the suitable woman for marriage must begin with becoming the best suitable man who embraces the duties and responsibilities of marriage as a sacred obligation. If you don’t accept and embrace the duties of establishing a family leave women alone.

The Quranic mandate is clear and men must not attempt to escape or diminish the rights of women whom they seek in marriage. Women don’t be fooled by your desires and excuses men from their duties. You are not helping us but setting us up to fail you every step of the way. Our assignments are clear and God is not in the business of playing games with your life and the lives of your children.

If you want the best of men stay on God’s plan and marry only men who demonstrate full acceptance with love and joy for being the husband that you want, desire and deserve. You too must become suitable for marriage before the wedding. Now get married and enjoy the amazing journey but brace yourself for life’s challenges. Marriage can be beautiful especially when you are dangerously in love.

As Salam O Alaikum
Good Morning ❤️

Bismillah.. Saturday, working at home

Actually, I have an age limit in mind when looking for a husband. In my experience, 90% of the men who come into my life are significantly younger than me. The other 10% are around my age or slightly older, but it always turns out they already have a wife 🤦🏻‍♀️.

Actually, if the first wife were sincere and willing to propose to me on behalf of her husband, I would still consider it. But honestly, I don’t want to hurt other women. Usually, once I find out a man already has a wife, I cut him out of my life.

I’m afraid people might think I’m a pedophile if I get involved with someone much younger! 🤣
Haha, no.. that’s not it. The real reason concerns the emotional stability of younger men, they often end up cheating or flirting with other women, though, to be fair, older men can be unfaithful, too.

From the start, I’ve been well aware of the risks involved in dating men 10–20 years younger than me, things like how family and others might react, or issues regarding my fertility. I still wish to become pregnant and have children, Allah willing. However, the men I meet who are older than me no longer want children, and my energy tends to align better with younger men.

That’s why I’m realistic: if I were to marry a younger man, once I reach my 60s, if I am no longer able to attend to his needs or provide him with children, I would choose a second wife for him. Myself I’d be the one to select his other wife, not him 😁, to ensure the marriage functions better. I know, of course, that in the deepest part of one's heart no woman wants to share her husband, but if you truly love your husband with all your heart, you have to be fair about his biological needs.

Note that this only applies if the husband’s financial situation is good or more than sufficient; if he is still poor, he’d better just focus on one wife.

Gak usah banyak gaya u pada! Minta istri lebih dari satu kalo masih miskin 😤👊🏻

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When Yusuf (A.S.) was thrown into the well by his brothers, it outwardly seemed as though his life was ruined. Yet, that very incident was the first step toward him becoming the ruler of Egypt. Your current difficult situation might actually be the beginning of something much better.