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On laisse-les halal mariageHonestly, I am looking for a serious, halal relationship that leads to marriage

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Sent a compliment to someone today as I thought I’d take the plunge and just do it 🥲 We said hello, salaam etc. He asked how I am and after I’d replied, I’d been blocked. Someone pls tell me where I went wrong 😂🔫🔫

About a month ago I got real with myself and realised that I had previously not been as intentional as I should be with this app. So I decided to run a small experiment about how my real and honest expectations would affect my Muzz experience.

I changed my bio very subtly and added that I am looking for someone “ready to take on the responsibility of providing for a family”. Since then I’ve had no matches, like at all. Before this, I would get a few good contenders a day, and would generally have my pick of men.

I’m in my mid 20s, attractive, educated with a good career, and I’m starting to think that my man just isn’t out there. I am now making plans for my life and future without the asterix of a husband being present for it. I feel very disheartened but alhamdulilah, I have always been content with my life and most importantly with myself.

Is there anyone else who has very serious and honest expectations in their bio and noticed how this has changed their time on Muzz?

What's something you ate constantly growing up that you assumed everyone ate, and later found out it was just your family?

I work in professional services (law). Why is it your fellow muslim colleagues are usually the worst snakes out of everyone? This applies to men and women.

I am increasingly getting alarmed by how low our brothers and sisters in islam are stabbing each other in the back to get praise from their white slave masters.

Anyone else experience this?

I have made it policy now to veer away from fellow ethnics at work now because of this. I would get so happy when i would see a fellow brown, but not anymore.

Hello WT WT.

As you know, I have you blocked but I’m sure this will reach you, just as your pathetic attempt at playing the moral high ground, reached me.

Let’s clear up the first thing. I did not send you a message, I replied to your comment. Big difference. Let’s make sure we don’t allow others to misconstrue that. Yes, I blocked you but not as part of a game like you claim so I could stop you from responding but instead to stop all interaction with you.

There is a whole load of waffle on your post about how we should be as Muslims, how we have big egos and how we get angry because someone else has a different opinion … bla bla bla, yet you have displayed each of those traits. You disagreed with my opinion on one of the posts I made and since then, any post of mine that you have commented on, you have done so in a condescending and passive aggressive manner. When I have hit back with the same energy, all of a sudden, you have felt extremely strongly about the traits that we should embody as Muslims, forgetting that you display the very opposite of those traits.

So is the problem that I have an ego? Is it that I’m angry? Or is it simply the fact that you despise when someone claps back at you with the same energy whilst you try to play the moral high ground and when they do, you start putting labels on them because you try and gaslight them and others into thinking that they’re the crazy one with ego and anger issues? I think we know it’s the last one.

You talk a whole load of nonsense and frankly, I don’t particularly like engaging with you, which is the reason why you’re blocked. People block and get blocked every single day. Let’s not turn it into something way bigger than it is. Ok? 🙂

You can make another post but this is my only post on this matter.

Sometimes the greatest happiness is found in the simplest things a cup of chai a peaceful evening and the company of the people we truly love As we grow older we realise that peace sincerity and good company are among life’s most precious gifts