Muslims in the UK

Getting married with disability

If you are single and getting married, this is what is on my mind.

People always tell me it’s better to marry back home, but I think that might not always be true. To be honest, I really used to want that, and let me be clear — I would marry someone from back home if she is good and has a beautiful nature. That is what matters most to me. But I would also love to marry someone right here in the UK too, if she is the right person.

Honestly, here in the UK, girls have said straight to me: “I rejected you.” That hurt, because they only look at my difficulties and not who I am inside. But I want to make this very clear — I am not desperate, and I am not begging for anything. That is not who I am at all.

I have speech and learning difficulties, and for a long time I felt embarrassed. But Alhamdulillah, this is part of who I am — it doesn’t stop me from being strong, kind, loyal, or able to provide and love properly. And important to know: I can have healthy babies, in shā Allāh. My disability does not affect that at all. I’m Bengali, from East London, I train hard every day — Judo, BJJ, boxing, weightlifting, Pilates. I work hard and want to achieve great things, and build a happy family one day, in shā Allāh.

Whether here or back home, I simply want someone patient, understanding, and happy — someone who sees my heart and character first, not just my differences. Marrying back home sounds lovely if she is good and kind; marrying here could be beautiful too, if people judged less and looked deeper. I know exactly what I am worth, and I know what I bring to a relationship and a family. I am just looking for the right person, that is all.

Does anyone else feel the same — open to both, but standing firm that you deserve to be seen for who you truly are and everything you can offer? Would love to hear your thoughts. 🤲💪

10 Signs You Are Being Led by Ego (Islamic View)

1. Rejecting advice
   You dismiss sincere advice or correction instead of reflecting on it, even when it is clearly beneficial.

2. Needing to always be right
   You struggle to admit mistakes and often argue to protect your image rather than seeking truth.

3. Getting offended quickly
   Small criticism or disagreement feels like a personal attack, so anger rises easily.

4. Looking down on others
   You feel superior because of knowledge, status, wealth, or religious practice.

5. Acting for people, not for Allah
   You change your behavior depending on who is watching, seeking approval rather than sincerity (ikhlas).

6. Struggling to forgive
   You hold grudges and find it hard to let go even when forgiveness is better.

7. Delaying repentance
   You know something is wrong but postpone tawbah because the ego resists humility.

8. Blaming others constantly
   You rarely take responsibility and often shift fault to people or circumstances.

9. Competing in status and recognition
   You compare yourself to others and feel uncomfortable when they succeed.

10. Losing humility in worship
    Even acts of worship can become prideful, where you feel “better” than others because of them.

Islamic reminder
The ego (nafs) is a test, but Allah elevates those who purify it. “Successful is the one who purifies it, and failed is the one who corrupts it” (Qur’an 91:9–10). Real strength is lowering the ego for the sake of All

Why Some Men Struggle in Islam

Shaytan and human weakness
Men don’t “keep getting it wrong” in Islam because masculinity is flawed, but because responsibility is heavy and human weakness is real. Shaytan targets both men and women, mainly through ego, desire, anger, and distraction.

Loss of direction, not loss of masculinity
When a man is disconnected from Allah, he doesn’t lose masculinity—he loses direction. The issue is not strength, but lack of taqwa, discipline, and grounding in revelation.

Lack of guidance and responsibility
Many men today struggle because they lack mentorship, righteous environments, and proper Islamic training in responsibility. Without that, leadership either becomes avoidance or misuse.

The Islamic moral
Strength without iman becomes chaos, and responsibility without guidance becomes confusion. Real masculinity in Islam is carrying responsibility for Allah, with sincerity, self-control, and accountability.

Suddenly the word “love” only belongs on fantasy tiktoks… games gone

Is it a 🚩 if she puts “looking for something serious, no time for relationships or situationships” 😂

To me it hints a experienced woman, or am i wrong (could be)

Both genders supply me 🥣with some wisdom😅

Do any girls just want to have a nikkah in a beautiful masjid and get it over and done with I’m not into all this cultural practices such as a mendhi, wedding and all that, I think it’s a waste of time and money.

Muslims Single Event

Who is going to this 👀👀👀😏😏

I’m actually reallyyyyy tempted to try it lol 🙈🙊 but lowkey scared 🤣🥺

Friday 5th June 6-10pm London

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