Muslims in the UK

Hi

Muzz has reduced free swipes from 15 to 10...another tactic to buy their extortionate premium gold bullcrap.

This goes out to some oddball
"Glassa Watuh" or whoever you are?

Listen, I got a notification you messaged me.

Although I know absolutely nothing about you, and you know nothing about me?

To my knowledge we weren't even having a conversation about anything?

Yet you've decided to take it upon yourself to write something to me?

Clearly it was in the intention that I can't reply back?
Hence the send and block? How old are you ? Playing pathetic childish games like a kid knocking doors and running?

Such a strange, childish behaviour?
Anyone can say anything and hide can't they?

What's the point in going to the effort to write something to someone, when the recipient didn't or couldn't even read it?
Total stupidity is what it is.

You do realise if you send something to someone and click block, that person doesn't get to read the message anyway?

So it's a pretty daft manoeuvre to make isn't it?
I mean think about it, what's the point of sending anything?

Wow! Congratulations!

If you got something to say or you want to be play hero about something, then let's see what you have to say to me like a proper person?

Give the person a chance to answer your question or point ?

Assalamu Alaikum everyone
The Double Standard: Western Freedom for Themselves, Traditional Loyalty Demanded from Men!
It is a great tragedy that some British-Pakistani individuals holding British passports often suffer from a severe sense of superiority, while their own personal standards and character are deeply flawed.
Their hypocritical mindset is truly baffling. They want a man to be completely traditional—loyal, honest, religious, responsible, and financially providing for all their expenses. Yet, at the same time, they demand absolute Western freedom for themselves—complete with immodest clothing, shamelessness, and total immunity from any man questioning or stopping them.
In truth, they are caught in an identity crisis—neither fully belonging to eastern values nor genuinely living the western life without family pressure. When self-respecting men point out this glaring double standard and hypocrisy, their fragile egos are bruised. Consequently, they resort to verbal abuse, nonsense arguments, and unwarranted degradation of men. This behavior is nothing more than a manifestation of deep-seated mental frustration. Those suffering from such extreme hypocrisy should look in the mirror before pointing fingers at others.

I genuinely believe many of us want to get married young, but somewhere along the way, it has become far more difficult than it needs to be.

Unnecessary cultural traditions, unrealistic expectations, and, in some cases, impossible mahr requirements have turned marriage into something many young people feel they have to postpone. Add to that the expectation that a man in his twenties should already own a house, have a car, and be financially established, and it’s no surprise so many end up marrying in their thirties.
Marriage shouldn’t be a luxury that only the already-successful can afford. Sometimes I wonder how much of the delay comes from culture rather than necessity.

What do you think society making marriage harder than it needs to be?

Any sisters here who own their own business? I’d love to connect and hear how you manage it alongside everything else in life 🤍🎀

Rejected facts for something unproven, seriously where are people getting their information from...? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

https://youtube.com/shorts/T6JtNtJ9too?is=-pnizA8tnjVzZ9vu

May Allah grant everyone pious spouse, beautiful life and blessed family. Ameen

Honestly, I feel sorry for the new generation sometimes. (not so much for who's in their 30s and 40s+)

Everywhere you look it’s “what’s the maximum mahr?” “What can I get?” “What are my rights?”

Albeit important but for fudge sake, there’s more to marriage and life than negotiating the biggest payout possible.

What happened to character, compatibility, building something together and actually enjoying life with someone?