Islam

It’s really difficult to know who is genuinely serious about marriage. Many people just waste each other’s time, which is hurtful for those who are sincere. I also don’t understand what some girls are looking for
if a person is educated, professional, and serious, why not trust build with them.

I am divorced with one baby boy!!

Saying feminism is a movement which protects women’s right is saying Ahmaddiya is a movement that came to reform Islam which won’t be wrong because Ahmaddiya did start as a movement but notice how it went on to butcher Islam and how it misguided Muslims to agree to something that goes against core values of Islam?

That’s the main reason why Islam tells us to believe in Quran and Prophet Muhammad pbuh only, that’s the reason why we are not supposed to change our religion or add innovations and that’s why Allah hates those who divide religion into sects.

Many women following this ideology or women under the guise of feminism are scarring good believing Muslim men, so if your leading with i believe in feminism a term Islam never used for you, your unintentionally pushing away good righteousness brothers. And that’s sectarianism. That’s what an add on (innovation) does to the religion.

Arif Ansari

If Allah gave you the choice of one quality in your future spouse, what would you choose first?
strong deen, beautiful character, deep understanding, or a peaceful heart?
I’m genuinely interested in marriage and looking for someone with serious intentions toward a halal marriage.
I believe Allah knows who is best for us, so I’m staying positive and trusting His timing. I hope to find someone who values deen, honesty, respect, and building a peaceful life together.

💎🤷 Not Everything You Want Is Owed to You

Entitlement is a dangerous mindset, and it is becoming common with the younger generation.

“I deserve a better salary.”
“I deserve more respect.”
“My parents should understand me.”
“My community should give me opportunities.”
“My teachers should give me their time.”

And sometimes, some of those things may be true.

But we have become very good at asking: “What are my rights?”, and very bad at answering: “What are my responsibilities?”

We want the position before proving ourselves. The salary before developing the skill. Respect before earning trust.

We expect our parents or spouses to fulfil our rights without thinking about what we owe them.

We want the community to serve us, but rarely stop to ask how we can serve the community.

Allah ﷻ says:

وَأَن لَّيْسَ لِلْإِنسَانِ إِلَّا مَا سَعَىٰ

“And that a person will have nothing except what he strives for.” (Surah an-Najm 53:39)

Look at the generations who carried this religion before us.

They endured. They sacrificed. They served. They worked hard and got covered in dust.

They carried responsibilities far heavier than their age, yet still preferred to sit in the background. They were not always stepping forward to demand what they felt was owed to them.

Their first question was not: “What am I getting out of this?”

It was closer to: “Will Allah accept this from me?”

“What more can I do that pleases Him?”

None of this means accepting oppression, allowing an employer to exploit you, or pretending you have no rights.

Islam gives people rights and commands justice.

But there is a difference between knowing your rights and building your whole mindset around what you believe everyone owes you.

If you want to become someone of value, learn to work when nobody applauds you.

Learn to start at the bottom.

Do more than the bare minimum.

Accept correction without turning every piece of advice into a personal attack.

And sometimes, be honest enough to consider that the problem may not be that nobody appreciates you. Perhaps you simply have not yet earned what you are demanding.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, while there is good in both. Strive for that which benefits you, seek the help of Allah, and do not give up.” (Sahih Muslim 2664)

It is reported from ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab رضي الله عنه: “Let none of you sit back from seeking provision and say, ‘O Allah, provide for me,’ when he knows that the sky does not rain gold and silver.”
(Al-‘Iqd al-Farid 2)

We need to raise Muslims who do not only ask, “What am I entitled to?”

We need Muslims who see a gap and try to fill it, fulfil their duties without being chased, keep working on what they lack, and try to leave people and places better than they found them.

So know your rights. But give more thought to your responsibilities.

Because strong Muslims are not built by constantly thinking about what the world owes them.

They are built through Sabr, discipline, responsibility, service, and striving, while knowing that their true reward is with Allah.

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Haya’ is not only for women . Boundaries and keep your eyes down my men! Iktilat did anyone knows about it? Especially men! 😓 it just sad and so disappointing.

PEOPLE ARE DISGUSTING!

I said my followers and me will be most famous candidates for marriage on this app, some of you begin saying dirty things like he is using Islam for own purpose!!!

Guys, are you OK in your mind!?

1. Halal marriage is something totally legal
2. I saw in my Previous posts that some people posted comments not related with topic
3. I Don't understand how you want someone to do dawah without being known by others
4. I don't intend to stay in this app for decenie, having other business I will leave very soon
5. This app is for marriage, i don't know how it works and I don't want to be banned for posting things that are not related to marriage
6. If you have questions it's time to ask
7. If you want our website ask me and I'll send it to you
8. If someone is struggling for marriage he'd better know his religion first
9. I personally have bestof.... mashallah tabarakallah and it is totally legitimate to keep it for myself and fear 👁 eyes
10. If I have to marry someone it is for the sake of Allah in order to have support in dawah, as some women are less coward than men!!!

Peace on those who follow the guidance!