Muslims in London

Please please
Let me know if there is a serious sister wants to marry
As soon as possible
Not wasting time in bla bla
Talk with you while texting others
Nor has a changeable mind
Or make marriage so complicated
More importantly lives in UK 🇬🇧
Or at least could easily come to UK 🇬🇧
Thank you 🙏

For those who’ve tried Muslim dating apps how’s your experience been so far? 👀”

Hey

Hello 👋

I strongly suggest that brothers marry back home. Girls here are too influenced by Western culture. They might wear a proper hijab, but their opinions and values are still Western. For those who wear Western clothing, it is the exact same case. That is why we hear news of divorces every day, and why so many women on apps like Muzz are divorced.

Been speaking to a guy the last few days and we've been getting on extremely well, until today alot of things matched. He told me some of his past and some of his vices in his past that totally go against my life and principles. I know i shouldn't judge and he says he has reformed his ways and character but im not sure how I can get past the things he has told me. Any advice?

Do people actually read profiles before liking someone? 😂

Genuine question because I’m starting to wonder…

I’m 5’10.5, but because the app doesn’t give me that option, I’ve put 5’11. It’s literally written there. Yet I still get likes from men who are 5’6, 5’7, 5’8 etc. 🤦🏻‍♀️

And before anyone says “height isn’t everything”… I completely agree. But if someone has clearly stated a preference, why like them anyway?

It makes me wonder how many people actually read the profile, look at compatibility, preferences, what someone is looking for etc. before sending a like.

Because surely the whole point of being on a marriage app is to actually find someone compatible, not just play the “like everyone and see who responds” game. 😭

So genuinely curious: Do men do this more, or are women just as guilty? And if you knowingly don’t meet someone’s stated preferences, why like them?

Serious question. I want to hear people’s opinions 👀

This comment deserves a proper reply
I wrote a post about looking for a feminine woman. A super intelligent sceptical sister bomed, "I think you are looking for a helpless woman to control, under the guise of a ‘feminine’ woman. You feel emasculated around someone you can’t control. That’s not the woman’s problem."

Are you even able to understand the meaning of the term Feminine?

Lemme help you a bit,

Feminine: it refers to couple of behaviours like walking style, talking way. Dress-up sense, using makeup, Lower and soft Voice tone, overall softness, face expression, organising things, decorating and beautifying things. These are women nature. Formal way it's said Feminine behaviour and informal it's girlie nature.

Feminine women are the symbol of softness, emotions, love and care. When a woman demonstrates these qualities in her everyday life she looks beautiful.

And masculine man are the symbol of leadership, protection, responsibility, and provider. When a man demonstrates these qualities in his everyday life he looks handsome.

There are some women who walk like a man with strong and heavy steps, talk like a man with heavy voice tone, no softness in their body language. We call them Tom Boy. Similarly, there are also some men who walk like a woman with slow and small steps, talk in tiny voice barely recognisable either man or woman voice, they are unable step forward to take responsibility when needed. We call them Lady Boy.

Btw, these qualities are changeable through regular therapy, speech therapy helps to get the voice tone you want, and physical therapy helps to change behaviour.

My post was about, as a man I'm looking for a woman who has feminine qualities. Simple logic, I don't want to feel like that I am living with another man! Similarly a woman wants to get married to a masculine man. It's very natural in every culture unless they are LGBTQ.

So, I don't understand what made that sceptical sister offended and bombed a negative comment!!!

Sceptical person is overly doubtful to everything, even on their own existence. They tend to think all people's intention is bad. Normally it happens because of bad life experience. Such mentality can be avoided.

If you are not able to interpret with a post then you should avoid that post. Everything is not for everyone. And it's a public place and people express their own opinions and preferences here. You have no rights to blame the person or assuming his intentions negatively just because his opinion and preferences is not according to your choice. It's not a mature human behaviour.

Thanks for reading. Constructive criticism on the topic, feminine woman and masculine man highly appreciated.

Bruh why Muzz recommending me all the Meady tings lol