All things marriage

I honestly dont approach or even text girls because they get so much attention from simps or guys to the point it just feels like ill be just another one of them.

Sometimes the ego of some girls is above the roof due to that as well

Why Muzz share delay spray adds on matches lol 😂 wtf

It’s fascinating how someone can tell you their whole life story, brag about being a famous 🏏 player 🙈 😉, and seem so invested—only to lack the basic maturity to say 'I'm not interested.'

Ignoring a text for a full day while actively commenting on posts isn't 'being busy,' it's just cowardly.

Real character isn't built on accomplishments or athletic status; it's shown in basic respect and communication. If you have time to comment on Jamaa posts all day, you have five seconds to be an adult and speak up 😉.

Let's bring basic honesty back to marriage search platforms.

hi im aida 29 year old, 155 cm, 39kg, i decide nak kahwin next year w a man who is 28-35 year old, 17+ cm, idm what you work for. if you're looking for serious partner please hmu. #dahpenatsingle

Maybe the right person isn’t someone who checks every box — maybe it’s someone you can laugh with, talk to for hours, and still feel completely comfortable being yourself.

I’m not looking for a perfect story. Just hoping to meet someone who makes an ordinary life feel a little more special. 🙂

Has anyone tried using Facebook, insta, reddit, x as matrimonial apps? They're just more enhanced versions of Jamaa no? If you can do rishta hunting here, why not on those apps which much larger pool?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdUya1VCNSr/?stkn=bXU3dWZmc2w3cjY2 MEN'S LOVE IS DIFFERENT..!

Muzz match story with a bad ending… a warning to women, especially single mothers.

F32, divorced for 2 years, with a 2-year-old child. I met a local man (38) on Muzz who was also a family friend. We clicked immediately and within 4 weeks had told our families. I felt safe because he was familiar.

He met my child and they bonded incredibly quickly. My child adored him and eventually called him “Dada X”. He was wonderful with us and often called my child his own. After being a single mother since my child was 6 months old, having someone who seemed to genuinely love and support us felt like a huge relief.

I trusted him far too quickly. I started giving him the treatment of a husband before he had earned it: cooking, spending time together, building a life around him. The biggest mistake I made was allowing intimacy before marriage, believing his repeated promise that nikkah was coming soon.

Month after month, there were excuses. His family weren’t ready. They hadn’t spoken to my parents. They weren’t ready to make arrangements. We had both come from difficult marriages and I believed we were building something different.

Eventually, my guilt over the haram relationship became overwhelming. I wanted a simple nikkah in the masjid and a small meal with our immediate families. Nothing extravagant. I told him I couldn’t continue like this and would have to walk away if we couldn’t make things halal.

Only then did things start moving. He contacted my dad, met my parents for dinner, and his family eventually acknowledged my family and me. I genuinely believed this was finally happening.

Two weeks later, after a relatively petty argument, he ended the relationship.

Just like that.

Ten months of promises, plans and a future disappeared.

We had talked about marriage, children, holidays, starting a business together and building a life between two cities. My child was attached to him too. The aftermath was horrific. I had nightmares for months and would wake up sobbing. My child cried for him repeatedly and had terrible tantrums asking for him.

Eventually my child forgot him. I didn’t.

Months later, he continued speaking to me despite no longer wanting to marry me. I felt he was keeping me emotionally attached while giving me just enough hope to stop me moving on. Eventually I blocked him.

I then found out he had remarried almost immediately after.

And that is the part I still struggle to understand.

I had spent almost a year believing that marriage was something he genuinely wanted with me, while he repeatedly delayed it. Yet within a few months of our relationship ending, he was married to someone else.

I absolutely do not want to justify my own actions. I committed zina. I was wrong, and I take full responsibility for my part in that. The guilt has been enormous and I have been seeking Allah’s forgiveness and making tawbah.

But I also want women (particularly single mothers) to understand how vulnerable you can become when someone comes along after a traumatic marriage and makes you feel safe again.

Please don’t allow promises to substitute for action.

If someone genuinely intends to marry you, there needs to be meaningful progress towards nikkah. If months are passing and there are always new reasons why it can’t happen, please don’t keep sacrificing yourself hoping that eventually it will.

And please be extremely careful about introducing your children to someone before marriage. My child loved this man deeply, and although my child was eventually okay, watching them grieve someone who had become part of their little world broke me.

I don’t know if I can trust someone again. This relationship affected me more deeply than my divorce because I genuinely believed it was going to be the relief after the hardship.

Instead, I feel traumatised by relationships and terrified to open my heart again.

I don’t want harsh comments about the zina - I already know I was wrong and I am carrying that guilt every day. What I need now is advice and kindness.

Most importantly, I’d appreciate advice from anyone who has experienced something similar about reconnecting deeply with their imaan after falling into sin. I pray, but I often become so overwhelmed with guilt that I sob and struggle to breathe. I am terrified of punishment and desperately want to have genuine tawakkul in Allah.

I take regular dhikr walks, which have helped me, and I’m trying every day to come back to Allah.

If you have any kind words, or advice on how you rebuilt your relationship with Allah after something you deeply regretted, I’d genuinely appreciate it. ❤️

Alhamdulillah for everything 🤲❤️

A little something i wrote a while back.
i'm telling you, love allah. the rest doesn't even matter.