To all us men(me included). We all should be embarassed as men, fellow brothers and Muslims

I feel sad and hurt to be part of this generation. As men we are given power and the edge so we protect our women; sisters, daughters, future partners of other men. We are meant to honour them with our character, our values and strength. We control our tendencies our tongues our inner nafs. We guard them even if we dont desire them, not share them like playing cards in a group like a game comment on them look down upon them use dark words to associate them with..even if we don't like some of them we move on focus on our lives and journey.

Sharing profiles pictures and talking so low about so many of these women doesn't just anger Allah..it shames us men and our generation. It hurts women it displaces thier trust in an already bad time finding partners. It hurts them especially as they are vulnerable. when did man get so low he targets vulnerability for his own joy? Imagine if our parents or theirs heard about how we obey our roles as men and future partners and Muslims.

The whispers of Shaytan and illusion are real.we as men need to control our nafs rethink and build our values character and reshape our thinking as whole men of our generation to bring true change PERIOD.

I sincerely sincerely apologise and feel for all women here who've been hurt and targeted by such people. 😔😪 My heart and soul truly wishes you recovery from this. Please don't let it spiral you down mentally. Absorb it but please dont let hate and anger consume you. You have every right to but Allah is the best of all settlers in affairs so please leave it to him and find peace with time within you. Heal 🤲🏽

Please
-turn off marriage links in socials
-keep phots private or only show them to ones you trust (I know trust is not even a warranted word here..)

• -send disappearing pics in DMS or wherever you talk.

These are just the top of my head.

Reality is there is no solution to such nafs and behaviours. I feel helpless and static. The solution is within those who do it. We all as men and brothers have betrayed the trust and confidence of our women in Islam even more...we need to earn it back.

As for the ones involved in the discord group which I just looked into. May Allah awaken your souls from this and give you this chance to truly reflect within. I feel deeply angered, quite upset as I write this and a bit teary. I usually speak strongly on such matters in a raw form but this time I wont. It wont serve purpose or value..my focus is only on all women and the hurt caused to them.

Once again, sorry on behalf of all of us men (involved or not) to all of you women, esp those affected.

Brothers, I'll be remembering all the women here in my prayers and I'll be doing specific nafal prayer for them in the coming week or so on this matter aswell so I urge you do the same please thousands of us together even sending a prayer in our breath will help all of them this is what Islam and the power of prayer is about. Remember them in your prayers and Allah remembers you.

May Allah protect each and every one of you women in every way possible. If any of us can help or advise you in any way please let us know in whichever way you wish or speak to another. We're all here for another.

Any ideas on what personal precautions women can put in place for themselves in response to such things please comment.

I'm truly sorry again and my prayers are always with each and every one of you women. I hope this brings even 0.1% of assurance or healing energy to you from the screen. May Alah truly protect you all from harms way.🤲🏽 Always.

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