I need opinions

So I went on a date on Saturday and I do like him. I found him attractive and I enjoyed spending time with him. We spent about four hours chatting. He was kind to me when I was feeling shy and even held my hand for a brief to help me relax. He kept reassuring me that I didn’t need to be nervous and could be open with him.

The main issue I had was that he seemed very focused on getting certainty from me. Throughout the date he repeatedly asked whether I wanted to be his girlfriend. I told him several times that I would think about it and give him an answer when I got home because I wanted time to process everything. However, he kept returning to the topic.

He also talked a lot about marriage. He is very serious about getting married and was asking questions about timelines, such as after meeting my parents how long I would want before marriage. I explained that I couldn’t give a definite answer because it would depend on how the relationship developed and only time would tell. However, the conversation kept circling back to marriage and relationship

Am I being reasonable in wanting more time, or am I overthinking this situation?

In the date I told him clearly I don't believe in *** before marriage and that I held this boundary all my life. He kept questioning it, said he didn't see the logic, and said he'd find it difficult to "completely restrict" himself. In follow-up message after the date he's said things like "why wait, we're mature adults" and that he wants things to "progress beyond talk and dinner" on the second date. He once said in the car that he'd be happy to wait until the wedding night, but his messages since then seem to contradict that.

He keeps wanting to go on a weekend trip with me now I feel like what his true reasoning is and not just “see what you are like on holidays”

He's generous in other ways says I can have whatever I want in terms of lifestyle, seeing friends, visiting family, etc. And I do like him. I've agreed to a second date. He is definitely someone thats looking for a wife

But am I being reasonable for wanting more in-person time before committing to labels, and for wanting to wait until marriage for ***? I feel like 4 months of talking online doesn't replace real in-person experience. He seems to think I should already know by now. If he wants marriage asap why is it hard to wait for the wedding night?

We rarely have casual conversation. In all the months we've been talking, we hardly ever just chat about our days, hobbies, funny stories or small everyday things. When we talk, it's almost always about the relationship, marriage or serious topics. On the date I kept thinking "come on, can we just talk normally?" He can talk a lot when he wants to, but he doesn't use that energy for light conversation or getting to know me as a person.