Psychology & Neurodiversity
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From human behaviour to neurodiverse perspectives, explore how we think, feel, and experience the world 🧠
Last evening, a Grab driver was hitting on me. He asked for my age, to which I replied, “A woman’s age is always a secret.” I already knew where that question was heading and, sure enough, he followed up by asking if I was single.
I said yes.
He then proceeded to guess my age at 30. I smiled and said, “MasyaAllah.” Quite frankly, I have no idea how he guessed me that young, especially considering I’d barely slept for the past 4 days.
It also explains why the lady at the airline gate kept looking back and forth between my business class ticket and my passport multiple times, probably trying to figure out my age. 😬
Thankfully, I managed to tiptoe around the whole single topic and somehow manoeuvre the conversation into politics. Always the safer option. Haha 😛
The neurodivergent ick when you realize mid-convo that correcting them is pointless because they'd need self-awareness and emotional intelligence to even process that they're wrong.
In relationships, if you find yourself want to take more than you give, it’s usually not love it could be attraction, possessiveness, or a desire that rises and fades.
But when you feel the need to give more than you take, that’s closer to love because love is about giving, compassion, and a kind of faith that grows rather than diminishes.
And that's the lesson! 🩵
في العلاقات .. لما تلاقي نفسك عايز تاخد أكتر ماتعطي ف
غالباً ده مش حب .. لكن ممكن يكون إعجاب أو حب إمتلاك أو رغبة تزيد وتنقص .. إنما لما تلاقي نفسك محتاج تعطي أكتر ماتاخد ف ده غالباً حُب .. لأن الحب إسم و له صفات ملائكية علي الأرض منها إحساس العطاء .
.والرحمة و إيمان يزيد ولاينقص
🩵. نقطة و إنتهت الحكمة
To step confidently into the future, we need to clear up any unfinished business from our past...
When you show up with pure intentions and geniune love, it’s never your loss
There are plenty of quality women on this platform. Just watch their posts and how they comment. It's not hard to spot them.
If you're interested, send a message. Don't be afraid of rejection.
The bitter ones? You'll see them bashing men on their posts, hiding behind religious talk while posting about manipulation. They lecture on Islam but act the opposite. Those are the lonely, bitter ones and they're always the first to react when anyone says anything about women.
Observe. Choose wisely. Send your message.
I think my main problem is loyalty 💀. I get attached to one person way too fast and ignore all the other people because I don't wanna give everyone my time, it feels wrong for me morally. Is there anything that can be done? Cuz for me it's always been the same cycle 🌝
