Arabs

I wanna hear the biggest red flags you’ve noticed on Muzz in both men & women 👀

Not talking about small preferences, I mean actual behaviors or attitudes that instantly made you lose interest or feel like( yeah this won’t work )

Curious to see if people here are having similar experiences or completely different ones

You will inspire some and annoy others. Do it anyway...

ستلهم بعض الناس، وستُزعج آخرين... افعلها على أي حال...

Dear men on Muzz,

If my phone is off for an hour, that is NOT ur cue to turn into a full time call center.

Calling me 15 times on WhatsApp, normal calls, Muzz & spamming messages like you’re tracking a missing person is not effort
It’s desperate.
It’s invasive.
And honestly? It screams insecurity.

Some of you confuse obsession with masculinity and think acting possessive after ONE day of talking is romantic.
It’s not.
It’s weird behavior.

A woman not replying immediately does not mean:
• she owes you access
• she’s playing games
• or that you should start harassing every app she has

The second a man starts acting entitled to my time, attention & availability 24/7, he automatically becomes a red flag.

Learn basic boundaries.
A woman feeling safe around you matters more than your ego needing constant reassurance.

Because nothing dries attraction faster than a man acting addicted before he’s even earned basic comfort.

This may seem ridiculous but let's say you actually managed to meet the love of your life on the app, everything is going well and you're about to introduce them to your parents.

Would you

A) Be honest and tell them you met them through an online dating app

OR

B) Come up with a random story about how you met and if so what would you come up with lol?

Curious to know your thoughts :)

AS I GROW OLDER 🌺, I understand why the Prophet (pbuh) said that whoever isn’t kind has no faith. Faith is kindness. If our faith doesn’t manifest itself through kindness, we’re doing something wrong. Our wounds thirst for kindness, our hearts yearn for it. Kindness. Even a small dose helps. Kindness. It’s what humanity needs most.

You are the gardener of your own existence . What you think, what you repeat , and who you keep close ,all of it grows . Be mindful of what you water….

Good morning my friends 🌷
Blessed Friday to you all.
May Allah fill your day with peace, happiness, and blessings, and grant you joy and answered prayers 🤍