Mental health
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Some of y’all keep saying you want a mature, financially stable spouse with emotional intelligence… meanwhile your entire personality is exposing private chats for public validation.
If a person disgusts you that much, why did you entertain the conversation in the first place? You accepted the chat. You replied. You continued the energy. Then suddenly they become a public topic the moment you lose interest?
Blocking is free. Silence is free. Moving on is free.
But some people would rather collect screenshots, open channel topics, and perform humiliation like it’s a full-time career.
Not every failed talking stage needs a press conference. Sometimes people are just not compatible. Act accordingly.
And before demanding what someone can provide, maybe ask yourself this first besides drama, exposure, and embarrassment, what exactly are you bringing to the table?
Be careful with how you treat people publicly. Today you may gain attention and validation, but tomorrow you may wonder why nobody feels safe opening up to you anymore.
Think before you expose. Think before you humiliate. Because maturity is not shown by how loudly you shame people, it’s shown by how gracefully you leave situations that no longer serve you.
“And do not walk upon the earth exultantly. Indeed, you will never tear the earth [apart], and you will never reach the mountains in height.”
— Al-Isra (17:37)
I wish all of you ease from all the effects of mental health struggles. May Allah be with you.
It's getting to the point where it's difficult to respond,,because every response feels inappropriate and ends abruptly... I often wonder how it could be so difficult to find someone who can at least give me comfort and security..😮💨😮💨
When I was young I used to fear death sm, I would genuinely start praying and asking for forgiveness for my sins when I heard of someone passing away. , now as an adult when I hear of someone’s death I genuinely feel jealous. I am like they are so lucky they don’t have to pay bills anymore, or go to work, or meet their potential or find a partner and get married. I genuinely feel like they have escaped the suffering of this world.
Is something wrong with me?
Many people feel alone in life. They struggle alone, rise alone, without realizing that everything comes from Allah SWT, both the strength and the ability they have. So when things feel overwhelming, they easily fall into despair.
My dear friends, let us never lose hope in the mercy of Allah. Remember that everything happens by His decree, qadarullah. Return everything to the One who holds dominion over the universe. Never feel alone, for Allah is always beside you. So increase your gratitude and seek His forgiveness through istighfar.
Remember when Ibrahim AS was thrown into the fire, or when Musa AS was trapped between the sea and Pharaoh’s army? It seemed completely impossible for them to escape. Yet they never lost hope, because nothing is impossible for Allah. When He decrees a matter, He only says to it, “Be,” and it is—Kun fa yakun.
