Muslims in America
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🇺🇸🕌 A group for Muslims in the United States, where we celebrate our faith and cultural diversity.
Curious question for the men here — and please answer honestly, not just politically correctly.
When considering marriage, what naturally pulls your mind more?
Slim / fit woman or plus-size / heavier woman?
Never married woman or divorced woman?
Woman without children or a divorced mother with kids?
And if she has children:
Does the idea of “instant responsibility” scare you?
Would you want to love and raise the children as your own?
Or would you prefer a relationship where the children remain mainly the mother’s responsibility?
Also — beyond looks and labels — what do you genuinely think each woman may bring emotionally into a marriage?
For example:
Does an unmarried woman feel “simpler” or less emotionally complicated to you?
Does a divorced woman seem more mature, realistic, emotionally deep, or understanding?
- Does motherhood make a woman seem more nurturing and resilient — or does it feel overwhelming to step into?
No judgment either way.
People are shaped by different life experiences, responsibilities, fears, and preferences.
I’m genuinely curious how men think about these things privately vs publicly.
Why does every well-educated Pakistani somehow end up in the USA
And when you finally gather courage to send a compliment…
they look at it like it’s a rejected visa application 💀🇺🇸
Me: “Assalam O Alaikum, you seem genuine.”
Them: seen 2 weeks ago
At this point I think I need USMLE before sending compliments 🤝🤣🤣
I have been using this App from a month ago
And still Haven’t get a single message 🤷🏻♂️
If money wasn’t issue or job would you still live in the USA?
Happy aïd guys
Eid Mubarak 🎉
How do you spent the first day of Eid Al Adha ?
Salam Aliukum! Eid Mubarak to everyone. Enjoy the blessed day, remember Allah’s blessings on everyone, and make dua for people who are going through a difficult time either overseas or privately.
فإن مع العسر يسرا
Any fellow car enthusiasts on here? (Especially fellow sisters? 👀) i just sold my first car as a side hustle alhamdulilah. It was such an interesting experience, praise be to God for His blessings. Wondering if anyone else is into this, and also car repairs!
