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Question for my brothers located in Africa
WHY do y'all get mad at us Americans when we say ...
We don't offer green cards OR
We not sponsoring anyone overseas
Then
Y'all proceed to call us names 😂
Angry
Judgemental
Lazy
Then say we will never get married 😂
( If you are offended by this I do apologize)
Brothers
If a sister gives you the greeting
-As-salamu alaykum
Any TRUE & REAL Muslim response would be
-Wa alaikum assalam
NOT
What's your phone number or
Do you got WhatsApp
AND
Also
Just because i give you the greeting
As-salamu alaykum
does NOT mean I'm interested but as a real Muslim just respond Wa alaikum assalam!
Question:
What are y'all thoughts on people who say they are SPIRITUAL MUSLIMS
DONT MARRY THE PERSON YOU CAN HAVE FUN
Don't Mary the person you can have fun with.
Marry the person you can suffer with.
anyone can love you when life is good.
When the sun is shining.
The money is flowing,
The smiles come easy,
That part is simple, but love isn't proven
On the best days love is revealed in the worst ones
When life hist hard when the nightmares start when everything feels uncertain.
Romance isn't vacation and photos, romance is who sits next to you in the er waiting room at 3:00am who holds your hand when the future feels terrifying. Looks at the broke exhausted messy version of you and still choose you still stays still fights for you.
Because anyone can be your playmate in the sunshine. But the right person they're the one willing to walk through hell with you.
Brothers STOP
oversexualizing the sisters you are interested in..
She is a person
And if you DON'T KNOW what oversexualizing means I will tell you...
Definition:
Oversexualizing (or over-sexualization) is the act of imposing sexual meaning, value, or focus onto a person, object, or behavior that is not inherently sexual. It often reduces individuals to mere objects of physical or sexual appeal, disregarding their full humanity and personality.
The Islamic approach to preventing the sexual objectification of women is built on a few core principles:
-The Command to "Lower the Gaze":
-The Quran explicitly instructs both men and women to lower their gazes and guard their modesty
(Quran 24:30).
This shifts the focus away from superficial appreciation, putting the primary responsibility on men to control their impulses rather than blaming the woman's appearance.
Equal Respect and Dignity: -The Prophet Muhammad declared that women are the "twin halves of men".
Islam strictly prohibits discrimination or disrespect toward women, mandating that interactions be based on mutual respect and intellectual exchange
The Danger of the "Gaze": -Islamic scholars warn about how the over-sexualization of society feeds into superficial, predatory male behavior.
Modern teachings emphasize how easily unchecked lust can lead to toxic mindsets
Modesty for Both Genders:
-Both men and women are commanded to dress and behave with dignity.
- -Modesty is seen as a way to preserve a woman's honor so that she is respected for who she is rather than viewed merely as a sexual object.
Islam considers women as intellectual, spiritual, and social equals. Therefore, the religion strongly condemns over-sexualizing, objectifying, or commodifying women. It mandates that men value women for their character and contributions, rather than reducing them to physical desires.
Future wife applications are officially open 💍
