Malaysia

good night

Connected with someone talked to her for 7 days and over the 7 days I saw a gradual decline of efforts from her end. I transparently explained what ive felt just said im just reserved and told me she really wanted a second chance. Even though imo being reserved and leaving messages hanging for 24h and even then only replying with one liners are not the same thing.

Next day all of sudden she was responding well and all. 2 days later she was back to being same. Last I sent her 6 messages to which the 2 single line responses were "sorry I'm not online here much" and "nice" in response to something I said.

2 out of 9 matches in my year long search have been with women who had no ability to communicate or have any sense of consistency and yet their bio would say "serious intentions", "emotional maturity" and "able to communicate".

At this point these are just buzz words people use and lack introspective view of themselves.

These sort of people really just suck out all of your energy. To me it feels like they just want the initial dopamine hit after which they need a new fix because they are driven by excitement of a new person but lack ability to invest proper efforts is actually building a connection

It’s funny how Malaysia sections filled with foreigner….

Subuh time. When intentions reset and the day hasn't yet stolen your focus. This is when everything feels possible 🤍

Me vs. Jodoh,

Sometimes,
you feel like nothing is happening, but somehow, you still hope that
someone will come along
someday... Hahaha. 🤭

Country
Population (approx.)
Divorces per year
Divorces per 100,000 people
Malaysia
35 million
~60,000
~170 per 100,000
Indonesia
280 million
~395,000
~141 per 100,000
This means:
Malaysia: about 170 divorces per 100,000 people per year (around 0.17% of the population).
Indonesia: about 141 divorces per 100,000 people per year (around 0.14% of the population).
So, after adjusting for population, Malaysia has a somewhat higher divorce rate than Indonesia—roughly 20% higher based on these recent figures.
Keep in mind that these are crude population-based rates, not the probability that a marriage ends in divorce. A more precise comparison would use the divorce rate per 1,000 married couples or per 1,000 married population, but those statistics are not always reported in the same way by each country, making direct comparisons more difficult.

Jumu'ah reminds me that we're never alone in this journey. Surrounded by souls seeking the same truth. Alhamdulillah 🫶🏻

Where are you??

How to know someone is real if he/she quite nochalant with U

Aslamualkum I hope all are good and be happy😊 in your life Any one can make Me a best friend