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I am always so pleased when I see the younger generations behave according to Islam and love their religion. However, there are the youth that disgust and disappoint me. I almost feel like approaching to scold them. We have some wealthier communities around here. I see the “kids” pull up in Mercedes and BMWs. Last night I pulled into a store behind a car that was going slow, then pulled up to the store and parked right in the middle of the parking lot, blocking people in, blocking and empty parking spot, then went into the store. We noticed a woman with niqab in the front passenger seat. And then this young man (maybe 19-20years old?) came out of the store with his purchases and got into his car and left. The man wore his ghalabayah and a beard (combed out to try and make it look as long as possible). It made me sick. We see this all too often. Such poor, spoiled, selfish, arrogant behavior. They swear and talk about women like ******.

After that, I went into the store and made my purchases, on the way out as I opened the door to walk through it, too young Arab men come walking into the store one pushes his way past me as if I’m opening the door for him, although I was already walking out. The second young man, child, attempted to also push through the door past me as if I was holding the door for him and wasn’t already walking through the door myself. At that point, I just let the door go. I was so disgusted by that point and the thing is this is more and more common. I’ve been scenic it worse over the past decade.

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🗣️🗣️🤔Google tries to recall the scenario of the surah al-Kahf, the young man sleeping in the cave, which happened before the Prophet Muhammad was sent. Okay, let's stop there, then we continue the scenario of Sultan Al Fatih conquering Constantinople, the goal was to spread Islam more easily, right? Because Constantinople is a strategic area, okay, let's stop there. Then we go into the current phenomenon of Islamic dating applications, the use of the internet that helps us widely to find partner options outside of countries across continents. Is the phenomenon of finding a partner in online applications also a kind of Allah's scenario to spread Islam? For example, most of the prophets came from Arabia and Islam seems to have developed initially in Arab countries, perhaps Arab people understand Islam better, and if they marry people outside of Arabia, outside of Arab countries, outside of the Arab continent, perhaps Islam will really develop.

Yes, the global reach of modern technology and the internet can absolutely serve as a tool for the spread of Islam (Da'wah). Throughout Islamic history, Allah (SWT) has used diverse means—such as geographic expansion and migration—to spread the message. Today, global communication platforms allow Muslims to connect across continents, which naturally fosters cross-cultural marriages and helps share Islamic values worldwide.

Exploring this phenomenon can be broken down as follows:

1. Connecting Beyond Borders
   The use of the internet bridges geographic and cultural divides, allowing Muslims in Singapore to connect with individuals from completely different backgrounds. By interacting and marrying globally, the Muslim community inherently grows into a more diverse, interconnected global Ummah.

2. The Sunnah of Cross-Cultural Marriage
   Marrying outside of one’s immediate culture or ethnicity is a deeply rooted Islamic practice.
   Many Companions of the Prophet (Sahabah) and early scholars originated from various ethnicities and continents, proving that Islam is a universal message, not an exclusively Arab one.

Cross-cultural marriages actively help break down racial prejudices and foster a better understanding of Islamic brotherhood and sisterhood across different societies.
3. Intent Matters: Marriage vs. Dating
While modern technology connects people, Islamic teachings emphasize the intention (Niyyah) behind it.

Muslim Marriage Apps vs. Dating Apps: Many platforms (such as Muzz or Salams) focus on building marriages (Nikah) and keeping conversations modest and supervised.

Using these apps strictly for the purpose of seeking a spouse in a respectful way aligns with Islamic principles. However, engaging in casual, unrestricted conversations typically falls outside the parameters of halal courtship.

Could you tell me:
Are you currently using any specific online platforms?
What cultural or geographical regions are you most interested in exploring for a potential partner?
I can provide tailored guidance on how to navigate halal matchmaking safely.
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🗣️🗣️🤔" Google can you draw a common thread between the scenario of Surah Al-Kahfi, the young man sleeping in the cave long before the Prophet Muhammad was sent, then the scenario of King Al-Fatih conquering Constantinople to spread Islam faster because the place was strategic, and the scenario of finding a partner in an online application facilitated by the internet. The common thread of these three events is Allah's scenario, which is that everything that happens on this earth has been recorded in Lauhul Mahfudz and that means Allah has also recorded the existence of the internet on earth one day, something like that.

✔️✔️The common thread connecting these events is the concept of Qadar (Divine Decree) and Tadbir (Allah's orchestration). Everything—from the sleepers of Ashab al-Kahf, to King Al-Fatih's conquest of Constantinople, to the invention of the internet and online matchmaking—is part of Allah’s grand, unfolding scenario recorded in Lauhul Mahfudz.

These three scenarios align in several fascinating ways:

1. Divine Preparation and Timing
   Surah Al-Kahf: The young men were placed in a 300-year slumber to protect their faith from a tyrannical king, waking up in an era where Christianity had become the dominant belief in the region.

Their sleep was a carefully orchestrated bridge across time to preserve monotheism.

King Al-Fatih: The conquest of Constantinople was the fulfillment of a prophecy [Sahih Muslim]. The geopolitical strategy of the city was utilized centuries later to help spread Islam rapidly across Europe and the East.

Online Matchmaking: Just like the historical events, the internet and dating apps do not exist by random chance. Their creation, code, and global accessibility were decreed long before they manifested, serving as a modern facilitator for people to cross paths, build families, and fulfill halves of their faith.

2. Utilizing the Means (Asbab)
   Islam emphasizes the importance of utilizing human effort while trusting in divine results:
   The Cave: The youths didn't just wait for a miracle; they actively fled their city and sought shelter in a cave before Allah granted them the miracle of sleep.

Constantinople: King Al-Fatih didn't wait for a miracle to take the city; he used advanced military engineering, pulled ships over land, and employed massive cannons.

Online Dating: Similarly, you are utilizing the asbab (means/tools) available in the modern era—the internet and an app—to seek a spouse, trusting that Allah will guide you to the exact person decreed for you.

3. Trusting the Journey
   All three scenarios require a leap of faith. The youths of the cave trusted Allah with their unknown future. King Al-Fatih trusted the promise of the Prophet. When using a dating app, you trust that Allah's plan is at work behind the algorithms, ultimately bringing you to the right person at the exactly right time.

Could you tell me what your goals are for using online applications or what specific qualities you are looking for in a partner so I can help tailor your approach?
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How do you know its love:

1. You think of her all the time.
2. You get excited at the very sound of a message and hope it's her.
3. You plan and daydream about her
4. You feel pain for when she is sick or has any problem and instead of just speaking nicely you want to show your love by way of actions to ease her suffering
5. You notice the small changes that even she doesn't notice herself
6. You actually remember the first time you met her and remember all the memories you had with her. You pickup all the things she likes and dislikes.
7. You show extraordinary patience that you don't show to others even though it hurts.
8. You forgive her over and over and give several chances to come back to you
9. You fear losing her.
10. After the breakup you take a long time to go back into dating and you hope she returns back so you half heartedly.
11. You examine the smallest thing you could have done differently and stress that she might have left because of this or that.
12. If a new woman shows interest in you, you will reciprocate (because you are growing old and loneliness hurts) but the memories still remain, years pass but they remain, you don't remember daily but often.