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"The best love story begins with peace, trust, and respect." 🌙

I seem to have lost my Rizzz/Mojo... can someone please point me back to how to find it?

When I first joined dating apps (late 20s), i was not really looking to settle down straight away. I had just been divorced from a very short toxic arranged marriage and i had issues, lots of them... low self esteem, grew up being shy around girls and not knowing how to talk to them. So my initial aim was to prove to myself im not weird and i can get girls to talk, and like me. I matched, talked, went on dates and somehow my progress accelerated. In this learning phase i was not ready to settle just yet. As soon as i sensed this girl likes me it was time to engineer an out-plan and move on. I don't think i spoke to any girl more than 3 months but i got better at whatever i was doing. I was not here to go on date after date, thats expensive and inefficient. It was about self improvement and practise. I progressed from girls who were more amenable to stubborn challenge girls with their heads in their clouds. Short girls, tall girls, rich, poor, larger, less larger, educated profis, retail school leavers, hot, less hot... i was doing something right. And now many yrs later when I'm anxious to settle down, I am struggling. So here I am journalling as anon to work out why, when i became super serious, in the best shape of my life, financially stronger than before, that i am struggling and sad. Is it really all the work of Qadr? I get turned down by girls i consider less desireable when once i had prime baddies eating out of my hands. Ive hit a mental block or something. Help a brother out.

*for legal purposes the above is for academic purposes only for stoking discussion

my view for 8 months :)

Beach is so underrated

It’s always the little things that end up meaning the most

The thoughtful stuff you don’t have to ask for

If your woman wanted face and butt shots would you support her or nah?

Why did it take me so long to get into watching Off Campus 😩

Would you want to know your significant others past relationship stuff or would you just not bring it up and just move on from it ?

I don't think visiting SNU is that bad, is there any company for that?