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Long post disclaimer 🤪✌🏽

I want to address this once and for all, and then never again.

There’s been a lot of chatter, assumptions and opinions and at the end of the day, i can’t stop people from thinking or feeling a certain way. But what i can do is share my perspective. I also hope i’m speaking for the girls who are probably in a similar position to me.

Firstly, just because we have a large following doesn’t mean we care about having one!
I don’t have the power to stop people from following me, point blank. This is not my real life and anyone who thinks this app means more to me than that is very much mistaken.
InshaAllah, one day i’ll dip from it altogether when i find the right person i wanna marry.
And when Shaz brings out an update that lets us control who follows us, i’ll happily spend two hours deleting all of em and matching my followers to following. You people need to stop asking for dark mode and start asking for this! Until then… it is what it is 🙂

Secondly, having a large following does not mean we have more options!
Take that however you want, i already know some people will have opinions.
Yes, when i first joined the social side, i received a lot of DMs. But a full inbox doesn’t automatically equal options lol. If 9 out of 10 people aren’t my type, then they’re not potentials in the first place and it’s all just background noise.
And before anyone asks, ever since the whole discord debacle, my DMs have been closed. That’s my preference. If i do get to know/ find someone for marriage, trust meeeee… Jamaa will never know. Also my preference 🤪

Thirdly, just because people may consider us “good looking”, it doesn’t add to or take away from who we are. It doesn’t mean we crave attention or validation. It doesn’t mean we can have whoever or whatever we want whenever we want!
Looks are incredibly subjective. One person might think you’re meh, while another thinks you’re the most beautiful person they’ve ever seen. I was never the “good looking” sibling or the friend in my friendship group, so when i came onto this platform and that became a topic of conversation, i genuinely didn’t understand and still don’t.
That being said, I’m also not going to do myself or my intellect an injustice. We all know looks aren’t what keep someone in your life anyway and there’s soo much more thats important than looks.
(ps incase anyone was wondering 😩 i’m not a catfish, just sayinnnn 🫠)

Lastly, i’m very aware of who i am and how i choose to carry myself.
I like keeping to myself. I don’t enjoy drama, and if something isn’t benefiting my peace or my life, i’ll simply distance myself or remove myself from it. That doesn’t mean i’m trying to be rude or mean (although trust me, i defo can be 😭😂). It just means i value my boundaries.
That being said i will stand up for myself and have had occasional instances of arguments… My fiery personality and my assertiveness are actually qualities i like about myself, and they’ll always come out when i’m getting a point across that i’m passionate about. Not something to be used against me. At the end of the day you’re actively choosing to live the life you’re living, and it’s actually up to you how you wanna navigate through it.

I’ve just felt very fed up with things going on, on here and felt the need to say something. I hope i’ve spoken well for others too.
Anyways, you cute if you got this far 🥰✌🏽 i shall delete this soon.

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Who prayed Fajr today??

A gentle reminder for all

Pray. Make dhikr. Work on your imaan, but also THERAPY

Hitting the gym and focusing on looking good is great, but don’t neglect what’s going on inside.

And if your entire personality online is toxic posts and rage bait… therapy is for you too, boo. 💛

Healing is attractive 😌

If you’re in England, you can self-refer for free NHS Talking Therapies: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services/find-nhs-talking-therapies-for-anxiety-and-depression/

One of these days, you'll wake up, open Muzz, and see my post saying:

"Good morning, my lovely husband. ❤️"

The rest of you are free to have a terrible day. 👌😂

How it works?

Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore - Tom Hardy.

And thats how it has always been. Not used to letting people in so rather let them capture the wrong version of moi🤷🏻‍♀️

Salam alaikum Everyone. I trust you are all having a beautiful weekend but if I'm wrong, kindly spice it up because happiness is free and only YOU can make yourself HAPPY.
I noticed something that a lot of people will be wondering how.The reason is because I don't reach out to anybody (male or female on Muzz or elsewhere) without visiting and reading your profile. And I have noticed a strange trend!. Most people who are quick to complain about treatment/behavior from other people may be the problem. How can you be having so much FOLLOWERS and you are not FOLLOWING a single one of them. Are you the only special creature of Allah or ALL your followers are of NO VALUE. RESPECT is RECIPROCAL Peace.

You see those foolish things you did for love I'm here to remind you that you'll still do it again!🧍

Honestly speaking, could you bring a Muslim
woman or man with tattoos home to your parents for an initial meet? Especially, if they weren’t totally capable of being hidden? (hands, high up on the neck, eyebrow, etc) 🤔