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One thing I've still yet to learn at my big age, is how to take compliments or when people congratulate you.

I'm a person who looks for words and actions to line up. But in those senarios, there isn't actions that line up with the words. Maybe gift giving or something but even still that doesn't feel right.

Hence why I either freeze or just because awkward (or maybe a bit of both)
Plus it puts me in the centre of attention so I naturally hate it.

How does one handle these type of situations?

She understands co wives is the Sunnah and my right..I understand I love her to death..she is an actual gift from Allah swa that I prayed fot and don't deserve..that one is enough..That a wife u don't have to worry about at all because she fears Allah and knows and respects your rights as a husband....Who has time for another wife. Im trying to be blessed with offspring..inshaallah..
Start off with a wife that's obedient to Allah swa....anything else is red flag....The caveat is..you also have to be obedient to Azzawajal
.Period make no excuses..accept no excuses..be his slave ..

You see it as pressure and hardship, Allah sees it as elevation and purification, maybe Allah wants to give you a rank in Jannah that your deeds will never allow you to reach.

Change your mindset 🔐

I have seen Beautiful hills and mountains of Pakistan. It's really different world. And specifically when you starts travel from Islamabad to Kashmir or North of Pakistan. You will see uncountable sceneries.
But, But the comfort and peace you get from looking at the Red color "Mountain UHUD" . That scene is nowhere else in the world.

Imagine when u realize.. multiple wives is actually the Sunnah...I mean. Whatever your opinion...your dislike.. your excuse....your reason...your preference......Just Imagine thr day u figure that out.....Do u still consider yourself obedient and Sunni or nah
...I'm asking for a friend..
Ps....I'm joking..but this is actually true...4 wives is the Sunnah..... 🙄😬😬😬😬

Hi. Comment “blah blah blah” if you are a human

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On the day of judgment, it will feel like we were only on earth only a day or part of a day, not just your life but since the beginning of the jinn and mankind..

So the question to ask yourself is what is your priority?

the bar is low

I remember y I left this toxic ish..entertaining..but bad for Adab..It will turn your deen bad. Before u turn their deen good