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There's an app called Slowly where letters take time to reach the other person depending on how far away they are.
If you were talking to a potential partner this way, do you think it would make things more exciting or more boring?
Personally, I think it would reveal a person's true nature a lot more. Since time is involved, people have to put actual thought into what they write instead of sending quick messages. You also get to see how they comprehend things, express themselves, and even their writing skills lol.
I'm curious to hear everyone's opinion. Would this make getting to know someone better, or would the slow pace kill the interest?
If you know french , will English be a piece of cake to learn? Which is more difficult to learn? Arab or french?
We allergic to closure, but obsessed with "communication is key"
We preach "communication is key" everywhere — in bios, posts, relationship advice — but we never learned how to close.
Some of us are great at starting: flirty messages, voice notes, "good morning" texts; we match, we chat, we plan.
But the second it gets awkward? The second we realize we’re from different worlds — different cultures, different families, different ways to express pain… language barriers, unspoken rules, misread tones — we don’t even communicate it, let alone make an effort to fix it.
So we unmatch, just like this 🫰
We click that button like we’re closing a ChatGPT tab, forgetting that behind that profile is a human: a human with emotions, dreams, and their own story… a human who gave you time and trust, who saw potential in you;
a human whose brain will now spend weeks, or even hours, filling the silence you left.
And real talk; If your goal is marriage — a real, lasting marriage — then communication can’t just be a quote in your bio. It has to be a skill you practice; because marriage is 80% repair, 20% romance.
You can’t say "I want a lifelong partner"
while practicing "block and disappear" as your conflict style.
A real marriage means:
"You hurt me" instead of "you’re blocked".
"I need time" instead of ghosting.
_ "I’m sorry, I messed up" instead of pretending it didn’t happen.
Closing a door you’ve opened is a responsibility for the respectful ones.
There was a time when relationships ended with adab: "This isn’t working for me. Thank you. I wish you the best."
Three sentences; dignity intact; both sides free to move on.
قال تعالى: وَسَرِّحُوهُنَّ سَرَاحًا جَمِيلًا
"Release them with a beautiful release."
Allah made even endings an act of ihsan, because closure is mercy — for them, and for you.
Unmatch if you must, but first, be a human: before cutting them off, tell them; wait for a response; hear their side. One message, one moment of respect — that’s the difference between leaving… and abandoning.
And honestly, how you leave says more about you than how you arrived...
We need to push a campaign to free the discord ppl and welcome them back to the community..
They were just being boys. And they repented too ..they're our brothers 😎
Let's go guys!! #FREE THE DISCORD PPL
What’s worse? People who make no effort to write anything for their bio or people who clearly have an AI write it?
Females be saying men have no chat/game but their personalities be dry like weetabix… 😩
My nieces and nephew always melt my heart. Today, I spent time at their place. My nephew came upto me and kept playing with the bottom of my dress.
"Pupho Hirra, I love your dress. It looks nice on you" (this was enough to tug my heart strings 🫠) Then I thanked him, gave him a little hug and said that made me happy.
Then my youngest niece chimes in seeing that "ME, I LIKE YOU DRESS TOO!"
Then the eldest niece "Yea me too!"
Idk what sort of competition it was, but it sure did lift my mood up. Just goes to show how much barakah children actually bring. Little joys and they don't even know it.
Some of us may not find our spouse here but can we at least find smart and intelligent conversationists?Like telebuddies...
